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You know what you are not into and don’t want to do. You know what and when you want certain things in your future. However someone seemingly great comes along, you fall in love, and although everyone else failed to change you, this one person has talked you into disregarding your dealbreakers and so much more. Its almost scary to no longer be set in your ways. Deep down you don’t want to change but you also don’t want to lose everything you two have become

like some of these guys i know neither have superior or even average looks nor any academic or any other achievements. i dont mean to say that these all are necessary, but the way they expect a girl to have a good body, less guy friends and also opinions about how they should behave, maintain their habits and the list goes on. then they have the audacity to reject girl based on how fat or thin she is just because they flirted with her and increase their "count" of women who are into them. some of these guys also talk how they are feminists and love having a home etc which is clearly very fake (for these guys).. they do realize at some point that everything finally comes to mental peace and how happy you are in life, dont they?

We’ve been together for eight years and there is still a lot of chemistry and things to talk about. With that being, his parents are snobs so he has basically told me he is willing to do a private marriage but a normal marriage isn’t possible. I could never be a part of his family. He also hates my family because he feels like they take advantage of me etc so other issues too. Ultimately, we realized we have to part ways but for some reason he still gets jealous if I talk to anyone else and even when we try to stop messaging or seeing each other we only last a few days, most a week, before we somehow get sucked back in. No matter how hard I try to cut out, I get sucked back in when he messages and vice versa. He claims he doesn’t love me etc and just wants to “use” me but then anytime I am hurting or family stuff comes up he gets involved immediatly and he gets upset if I prioritize family over time with him. Is this considered a form of addiction and anyone else experience it before?