We’ve been together for eight years and there is still a lot of chemistry and things to talk about. With that being, his parents are snobs so he has basically told me he is willing to do a private marriage but a normal marriage isn’t possible. I could never be a part of his family. He also hates my family because he feels like they take advantage of me etc so other issues too. Ultimately, we realized we have to part ways but for some reason he still gets jealous if I talk to anyone else and even when we try to stop messaging or seeing each other we only last a few days, most a week, before we somehow get sucked back in. No matter how hard I try to cut out, I get sucked back in when he messages and vice versa. He claims he doesn’t love me etc and just wants to “use” me but then anytime I am hurting or family stuff comes up he gets involved immediatly and he gets upset if I prioritize family over time with him. Is this considered a form of addiction and anyone else experience it before?
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why are you constantly letting go of this dude? it seems like you two are a good match and just someone you need in your life. you've been through a lot. i actually kind of relate to this, except 7 years and we've never broken up ever. just seems like you two are going through a really tough time, me too, i can't blame you, have you seen the world? but i feel like sticking together would be best right now and you two need to talk about your problems more and work through and do the best you can.
i do think you need to be careful tho because someone saying "i don't love you" "i just want to use you" is very toxic behavior and one that needs to be changed asap. therapy can help.
this girl , but we didn't really date i just saw a lot of her at this one place we frequented , i was defintely addicted to her
What did the addiction feel like and what do you think was most addicting about her?
a sense that i'd want to be around her or with her , talking to her or just in her presence at that time