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well the love of my life i met him a few weeks ago, on December, we said we're with each other only, but i had sex with a guy this week, and i don't if ill tell him today that ill see him, we both told each other that we're falling in love of each other. but well i wanna keep seeing the guy i was with before him, and i told him about him, the previous guy told me he wasn't that into me and that he didn't like talking to someone everyday, and i told him i didn't want to be friends with benefits with him, and now i do want to because, this new guy im in love with can only see me on fridays and weekends, and that's too little for me, he says i won't be always, it just he's got more work because it's summer, but still, i wanna keep seeing the other guy, plus the other guy is generous with drugs, and my new guy doesn't care about inviting me that, and i have so much fun with mdma, i buy that and i like to be invited to have sex and do mdma and i also invite mdma but my new guy doesn't even do that, he doesn't like mdma, he likes cocaine and i dont do that. well there is also another guy i wanna keep seeing, he was my dance teacher and i dont want something serious with him too, i just like having fun with him , these two guys are so fun , i like having sex with em and do drugs with em, during the days im not with my love of my life, also, I've been on relationships all the time, im kinda tired of that, i didn't want this love of my life to come now but he did and well i wanna do things right but i hate that i could never really enjoy my singleness...

what do you think? should i tell him all this?

You know the saying the good ones are already taken? The good looking ones always are, does that mean I’m not one of the good ones? This post comes across as very defeatist but I’m just being blunt, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve become more and more inactive, I can’t tell if I’m uninterested or burnt out. Getting matches have never been the issue, it’s just working out. I’ve never been approached by the kind of guy I’d actually date, people tell me that guys look at me but they never do anything about it. The ones that do aren’t the types of guys you’d want, don’t want to overthink it either but I have a very low sex drive. I don’t socialize so the apps are the only way, I don’t want kids & think it’s time to come to terms with this. My mom said this a while ago, “if you choose to be single your whole life that was your choice”. That was a bit insensitive & ignorant

I’m starting to realize that maybe men just don’t like me, I’m going to be 30 soon & never been in a proper relationship. I don’t want kids at least but I really don’t think I’m unattractive, I have self esteem issues so my opinion changes. But I’ve been on the dating apps for years on and off, my interest in them just became lesser over the years. Getting matches are never the issue it’s just it working out, always ghosting, fizzling out, etc. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, I never get asked out by guys in person, I can confidently say I’ve never been approached by a guy I found physically attractive. Back when I was 23 I dated someone briefly & I felt so offended by only being able to attract him it felt like settling I couldn’t be with him, I’ve been alone this whole time that shows you how men feel about me. When I was younger and around people my age more often I was told these guys found me attractive but they never did anything about it. The fact that beautiful people are always taken it makes me realize I’m maybe just not good enough. Isn’t it strange being as old as I am & still not meeting someone that I actually like? I’m not asking for a lot: good looks, taller than me (doesn’t have to be 6+ ft), educated, good sense of humor, not a cheater etc. I feel like I’ve genuinely become less interested in dating with my experience, I have a lower than average sex drive too I think