Guys, Does he still have something for his ex?

[Anonymous]

With a guy 6 years. Have a child also. Long story short, when we first got together an ex of his made me feel insecure, only because he would talk badly about her but she is beautiful. Anyway, we broke up for a year due to his drinking, he got the help and is sober 2 years. We decided to give things ago again but over the period of 6 months i was told her slept with 5 different woman. I was ok about it as we were not together but was angry as I asked for honesty from him and he said he was with nobody. I let it go and asked him to be honest if there was anything else as I didn't want to hear it from anyone else but him. He said no. Found out last week he has slept with the ex I was insecure about, the ex he was with for 3 years when together the ex he had mouthed and stayed well away from when we were an item. She told me it was a 1 night stand, I didn't tell him this and asked him how many times he said about 6 times. I feel sick. He told me it was just for sex nothing else. But 6 times, her!!! He's Said he wants a life with me wants a house marriage the lot but I feel so disrespected and sick. Can I get some feedback please on this and your thoughts

[Venting101]

If you were broken up, I don't feel he has any obligation to tell you who he slept with or how many times he slept with someone during the break up, I mean you were broken up. Why does it matter if he slept with his ex or not. Again you weren't together. You were broken up so he didn't really disrespect you. Also your jealously is not his problem, that's your problem.

[Asker]

Thanks for your honest opinion. I should have added I have issues with my cervix this is why it was important I know if he had slept with others. It was not the people it was the lying

[Guy13]

Sorry to read that. I hate horrible surprises.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Yeah