I met this guy on Tinder in Bali (we were both tourists in Bali); we talked for around 2 hours, and I must say it was a fun convo with him. It was around 2 a. m. at that time; it was too late and the bar was ready to close, so he asked if we should continue talking at his villa and if I could bring my friend (I was with a female friend at that time). Even though it was a friendly invitation, I never went home from the first date and didn’t know how to reject it, so I told him, "We need to go back to the hotel; my friend is sleepy." He sensed I was lying and told me, "If you don’t want to, just say no." Fast forward, we met again. 2 months after Bali, I couldn’t deny the chemistry, and I agreed to get intimate with him. Weeks later after that, he arranged a vacation with me, where we spent 9 days together. Not gonna lie, the chemistry was there; we laughed about anything and everything, and we took care of each other during the trip. It was like a trip with a best friend but with hot sex. We don't have sex that often; we only have intimate once a day, and there are also nights where we just go straight to sleep. I made a mistake; I caught a feeling, and I let him know. We agreed to just be friends with no sexual contact. He agreed, but there were times when he was jealous of me talking to other guys and blocked me. Eventually he would unblock, and then we would be friends again. It happened twice, and now I’m trying to emotionally detach from this guy because he is so confusing. Does he like me or what?
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Did you end up sleeping with him the first night you met him in Bali? It's not clear from your message, as you indicate you don't normally.
At any point between that night and you meeting him 9 months later did you discuss what you both wanted?
Usually during that period of time it would come up, in fact its usually girls who bring it up. But sometimes if girls think they found their dream guy or are charmed by a guy, they overlook it in order to not mess it up.
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Put some breaks in that dissertation. I can’t keep up with all that.
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