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So a girl from an online group started flirting and talking VERY sexual stuff with me intensely for (probably) no real reason about almost 5 months ago, and when I tried to warn her with a friend for a really toxic dude one month ago she instead got curious about him and is probably now talking to him almost every day and most likely doesn't believe me anymore. I think this because she kinda mocked me and my friend when I warned her a second time.

I contacted with her two times after that but it was rather not so deep and smooth as how it used to be. She replied in two minutes the first time and wasn't mean per se, just a bit vague and provocative. Apart from this, she used to say she even wanted to meet my parents and have my surname in 5 years, and talked about our family of millions of children about which I joked first.

All my friends are saying she's an attention-whore who never cared and just uses me and other men for her own self-esteem. Some said I could try to ask her to figure out about her true intentions from the beginning. Others said to just ignore her and maybe delete her everywhere.

What do you guys think? I'd appreciate your advises.

By the way: I used to have a crush on her but now I just distrust her. I'm about to end this shit in my head very soon. My choice would be either option 1 or 2, but I'm still thinking about it.

I can give you more details about the story if you want.

If you don't understand what I am saying, what I am getting at here we all tend to have motivation whenever we are engaging in a hobby, or designing our homes or the type of style you want to wear. There are some people who mostly do these things because they actually have an interest in doing them despite knowing others doesn't think it looks good on them but that doesn't usually stop them from doing them.

While there are others who do want to appeal completely attractive to others especially for the opposite sex, so they do a ton of research and asking around to find out which hobbies, career, and clothing are considered the most beautiful for others. Sure these people might be putting to much pressure on appealing good but hey if beauty was either we all would be doing it and it wouldn't be that beautiful anymore. So ladies and gentlemen my question is when you trying to live your life do you usually do it because it something that you enjoy doing or because it considered the most attractive in terms of your specific gender? Me personally I would sometimes try to ask about certain things that might appeal attractive towards women but for majority of the time I just rather do or wear something because it's something I actually want to do. Like one thing I definitely wouldn't mind wearing is leather pants and a leather jacket, I know most people might not consider this to overly masculine but who cares I just really love fashion. But that is me what about you boys and girls how do you want to live your lives? by the way! The pictures doesn't have to do with the question but I am a black man who loves fashion and with the white girl usually women in bikini looks hot oh wait I guess it actually does relate with this question after all. 🤣🤣 But back on topic so which one is it ladies and gentlemen!

I did a tinder experiment, a nice looking guy and posted him on tinder and then a really good looking guy with a chiselled body on tinder.

the first guy got very few matches and the hotter guy got too many.

I began to ask them questions. All the girls said they don’t care about the physical much but the connection. Bullshit. Women are very shallow.

Well obviously not right?