A couple of months ago, I confided in a colleague (work in same building, different companies) about how a guy had upset me. He gave me some advice and basically told me to decide what I actually wanted from life and to work towards those goals.
He always says hi and will ask how I am but never really had a lengthy chat since then. I have since started to develop a bit of a crush on him. I'm trying to gage how he feels, I do think he likes me though. In the past few months - 80 per cent of the time he walks past my desk, he makes eye contact and I always get a good morning... When I was ill, he was one of the first people to ask how I was when I returned to work, he likes to wind me up in a friendly way and he even text me when I was away with the girls to ask how my holiday was - though he wasn't v. chatty over text. He even pecked me on the lips when we were on a night out.
I know he cares for me and he has a lot of admirers and people that respect him where we work.
Over the last month he has made it clear he is single ( we were discussing how much he worked - his reply it's hard being single) weird way to let me know haha.. He told me he liked my perfume, said we needed a catch up after our deep and meaningful a few months ago... He always knows if I'm angry / down and although he gives me space, he will always check on me and give me advice. He has joked about me drunken texting him and us waking up together, said we're quite alike and also that I make him nervous.
I get we're friends and he can be a joker and I know he wants me to be happy and not messed around by guys and maybe I'm looking too much into it but I think he may have a crush on me too... There's definitely flirting going on but I'm just not confident. What do you guys think?
