Opposite attraction?

Anonymous
I am new at my current job, and already had my eyes laid on this guy. I wouldn’t say love at first sight, it’s just my eyes are like automatically on him. I don’t know why. His first impression on me was the same, he finds me cute.

He got my social media and started texting me first—which led to eating lunch together at work or being together during break.

I am attracted to him, I really like him and he felt the same. “I like you and i find you very very attractive and kind and so many great qualities” what he said (except he has something going on in his life. He is not ready for relationship but that’s not the topic right now)

As the days go by, I realized that me and him are far more different from each other. Like for an example, I am more classy type of girl while he is that type of guy who parties or smoke weeds.

Aside from that though, he is very caring and sweet guy. He ties my shoes so I don’t have to bend, communicates with me to keep me assured so I can avoid doubting, and compliments me a lot. This is all from knowing each other for two months.

We went on a date in the independence day, we went on a hill to look at the fireworks and he carried me on his back on the way to his car. I don’t feel those butterflies in the stomach or that nervous heart beat skip faster thingy… I feel so safe and comfortable with him that I fell asleep on his arm in the car. Meanwhile on that date… we already held hands, he held my hand first.

Things is going too fast that we both agreed to take things slow and to get to know each other.

Well, you could say that it was just a word, didn’t kept the promise and we already did the devil tango or sex two times in just a month knowing each other… It has been talked that we aren’t taking each other on a date but just friends since he isn’t ready for a relationship. I know, you probably think all of the negative things but I would probably consider this as a experience.
Opposite attraction?
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