When comes to the opposite sex do you require there be genuine attraction genuine feelings for them before considering perusing them in any way?

[SpokenTruth]

When comes to the opposite, do you require there be a genuine attraction to them such as a (fuzzy feeling aka a natural high) within in down in your stomach before considering anything serious with them or perusing any possibilities with them in our future?

[kylee2437]

So In the past I have, but them giving me a fuzzy feeling doesn’t mean they provide what I am looking for in a relationship. This guy I had a recent fling with gave me a fuzzy feeling and when we were seeing each other in person he gave me physical attention, but when It came down to it he provided absolutely nothing that I was looking for , for a long term relationship. So fuzzy feelings are amazing, but essentially they are only amazing for short term situations especially when that person doesn’t provide any real substance to my needs

[SpokenTruth]

What exactly were you looking for that they lacked?

[kylee2437]

Absolutely everything lol from my experiences the fuzzy feelings I was getting was masking the fact that they weren’t even compatible for me. Some not wanting marriage, not wanting to spend that much quality time with me, not planning dates, not showing ways of thinking about me , etc

[SpokenTruth]

It sounds like it was one sided affection and that's very understandable. Thank you for elaborating.

[kylee2437]

Agreed, which is why I no longer approach situations based on my feelings only (fuzzy feelings) because fuzzy feelings are typically one sided if you are deciding to date someone based on that fuzzy feeling only

[Guy13]

I require that there be something that I like about them in order to speak to them. But yeah, sometimes when they open their mouth and speak my hardon limp... It is what it is.