Guys and Girls, I wonder whenever you are doing things or dressing in a way do you usually do in order to be more attractive or because it enjoyment?

[FinalFantasyBro]

If you don't understand what I am saying, what I am getting at here we all tend to have motivation whenever we are engaging in a hobby, or designing our homes or the type of style you want to wear. There are some people who mostly do these things because they actually have an interest in doing them despite knowing others doesn't think it looks good on them but that doesn't usually stop them from doing them.

While there are others who do want to appeal completely attractive to others especially for the opposite sex, so they do a ton of research and asking around to find out which hobbies, career, and clothing are considered the most beautiful for others. Sure these people might be putting to much pressure on appealing good but hey if beauty was either we all would be doing it and it wouldn't be that beautiful anymore. So ladies and gentlemen my question is when you trying to live your life do you usually do it because it something that you enjoy doing or because it considered the most attractive in terms of your specific gender? Me personally I would sometimes try to ask about certain things that might appeal attractive towards women but for majority of the time I just rather do or wear something because it's something I actually want to do. Like one thing I definitely wouldn't mind wearing is leather pants and a leather jacket, I know most people might not consider this to overly masculine but who cares I just really love fashion. But that is me what about you boys and girls how do you want to live your lives? by the way! The pictures doesn't have to do with the question but I am a black man who loves fashion and with the white girl usually women in bikini looks hot oh wait I guess it actually does relate with this question after all. 🤣🤣 But back on topic so which one is it ladies and gentlemen!

I am doing things because I actually enjoy doing those, not for the approval of others.

I really want to hopefully get some friends and especially a boyfriend or girlfriend in the future so I definitely want to do things that others would find great and sexy on me.

[Sandeeppingping]

Both, I have high standards for myself and for others, and I do like the finer things in life, so it's a given I care about what I wear and dress like I own the place, and yes I do always dress up

[Sandeeppingping]

Thanks for mho my broza

[Twalli]

I want people to like me for me. So I wouldn't dress or act in a certain way to get a girlfriend

[Little_Bumblebee]

I go for what I like to wear or use my time on. Seems like a sad life if I didn't enjoy it, and only then are you more likely to actually find the right people in your life, be it because of friendship, sexually, or otherwise.

It's easy for me though, probably because I've almost always been into things that weren't that popular.
For example, I got interested in anime/manga when I was around 10, and we lived in a small city, so others thought of me as weird.
And I played badminton, always was one of the few girls that did.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I like to dress casually and with shorts all Summer and Winter and in the Winter months I wear Sweat Pants outside when it's cold outside and I wear T-shirts like certain bands example Metallic, Wolve's, etc. also I wear a nice Winter jacket that zips up.

[RobT312]

I think some of both, but If I only could pick one, it’s for my enjoyment, not others. For example, no one seems to like speedos, but I’ll probably be the only dude wearing one at the beach today because I like them.

[DizzyDesii]

I chose whatever I felt casual and comfortable in. Normally something like below

[dustybiker]

I’ll dress to fit what I am doing. I’ve never been one to flaunt my body. Just dress to make my loves ones proud to be with me.

[Jacobbbb]

It's a bit of both for me. I dress to impress not gonna lie about that lol but that's also my personal style that I feel the best in 😆

[_deeznuts]

its a combo yk, sometimes i feel like dressing how I want and sometimes I feel like dressing how I think people will like.

[RealDaveThomas]

Age old question

Do people dress, for the opposite sex

[Blackcosmo]

Mostly for myself. I just wear comfy clothing.

[Jouth]

girls wanna get fucked by dicks

[msc545]

Both reasons as well as many others.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Both.

[LovingLoverReturned]

I care what people think to some degree.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Life is hard enough... why make clothes a distraction or barrier?