Why does this girl act shy around me

[Anonymous]

shell act competely normal to any other guy and hug them but whenever I'm around shell stare at me for a long time or just a couple seconds 2 days ago me and my friend were going 2 see his friends and she was there I don't know if she was talking 2 the girls but as soon as she seen me she left lately she also stands by the front highschool doors with her friends guys and girls.most of my friends said that she has asked them out herself she also stops talking when I'm around she is very good looking but I just don't know why she acts different around me anyways she's been doing this for about 2 months now and I'm wondering if she likes me or just wants 2 go out with me becuase my friends said no so I don't talk 2 her because I feel that I'm last on her list you know what I mean. and if I make her feel uncomfortable that would suck because she always looks at me when I walk by or when I am standing with my friends but when I stop like 2 feet away from her shell leave.

[sammyangel9991]

Trust me when I tell you that she likes you and she has got it bad... I am in the exact same situation and the reason I act that way is because I feel like he is too cute for me. I actually asked 2 of his friends out before so its the same thing that way too.

You are not the last on the list. She just liked different guys at different times. She once liked your friends and now she is into you. She's shy and she has been rejected before so she probably has no idea that guys actually do find her good looking because whenever a girl gets rejected, she assumes its because she's not good looking enough... Go up to her and talk to her if you are into her. Also, if you have been not paying any attention to her, she probably thinks that you are not into her at all and therefore she is not going to show interest. Make sense?

[Asker]

Do you think she still likes me evenwhen she hugs other guys but when she's with those guys shell still look at me.

[sammyangel9991]

Yes. She is trying to make you jealous. The dead giveaway is that she looks at you to guage your reaction while she is hugging these other guys.

[Asker]

My friend said she switching schools in second sem and she seems 2 really like me even though we haven't spoken and I don't want her 2 be the 1 that got away and if I tell her how I feel she might think its corny considering its right before she leaves she also keeps looking at me when I walk by her or when she comes out of her class shell take quick glances I don't know what 2 do I really feel like I'm going 2 end up kicking myself if I don't step up.

[sammyangel9991]

Go up to her tomorrow and say hey listen I heard you were switching schools next semester but that's a bit of a problem.You see I haven't gotten to know you yet.So I think we should hang out after school and do something on -------. You seem like a really cool girl.

Just whatever you do, don't let this girl slip through your fingers. Use a note if you absolutely have to but I would recommend asking in person. Good luck :)

[Asker]

I didn't get a chance to go 2 school today I had a spare and she had her test but I just feel like I really need 2 talk 2 her and I don't know how 2 explain it but she is something I look forward to when I have to go 2 school its just she's always around other guys and hugging them and talking 2 them and it makes me feel like she doesn't like me even when she looks at me a lot and different around me but she always looks at me or takes a quick glanc whether she's talking 2 or huging those other guys

[lolabear]

usually, when a girl is more shy around a certain guy, it means she's slightly interested, but your case is bordering on sheer avoidance. ill tell you honestly, I'm not sure which it is. but I do know some things that may help you out:

1. next time you see her in the hallway, say hello, or offer a smile or nod of the head. maybe a nod incorporated with a smirk. sexy.

2. since she seems outgoing, maybe find a time when she's alone or with one or two other friends (I know, intimidating, but trust me), and ask her straight up if you offended her or what makes her not want to talk to you.

3.talk to some of her guy friends (if you normally talk with them) and ask if there's something up, or maybe ask how she acts when she's interested in someone.

[jasmine69]

I think you should try having a conversation with her... she might feel something good about you to say the least.

Good luck

[Hercules]

It sounds like she's interested in you somehow. I would try walking by her, smiling, waving, and saying hi. Just be friendly.

[Asker]

My friend said that when I walk by her she sometimes smiles and that shell always look at me or take a second look when she leaves or when I go by her she also has a boyfriend though and I'm not a jerk I won't talk2 her until they broke up but why is she trying 2 make me jealous like that and when she was with her boyfriend she looked at me and started hugging him she also looks at me when she with her friends.

[Hercules]

There's no reason to believe she's trying to make you jealous, she could just be interested in you. Also, there's nothing wrong with talking with her. I've talked to tons of girls who have boyfriends, it's not a big deal.

[Robert147]

What if you say hello and wave and she just smiles and waves but doesn't say anything? What does that mean?

[SmallBoy]

Dude she's interested in you man. Just hope you aren't a gooner.

[Anonymous]

She likes you a lot and cares about what you think of her, that's why she acts that way. If she wasn't so worried about whether you like her back she'd act like her normal self

[Anonymous]

she likes you. thinks you're hot stuff. and is scared of rejection.

how do I know? I've done it. still do. hate that I do. just haven't grown out of that yet.

[Grubhub]

This happens to me around girls all my life. There’s gonna be girls like this. Okay brute intimidated obviously, I don’t think they like us