Search Results: how do i convince her

Every time I've been in a holding cell, most of the other guys arrested were there for not paying child support. They told me they go in front of the judge, pay some token amount from the money in their pocket, get released, move, get a new job before their wages can get clipped too bad, and repeat the cycle.

Most of them saying because the kid isn't theirs. One of my friends convinced himself of that to the point of signing over his parental rights because his ex just didn't want to deal with him anymore.

Anyway, it seems like a lot of the negative, for men and women, could simply be avoided with paternity tests before making that paternity legally binding on a birth certificate, or changing how that works outside marriage, I don't know.

It seems doable though.

Contributor to the guardian, Angela Phillips, wrote an article about the possible availability of a male contraceptive titled “Is the male pill good for women?”
Phillips said “sometimes it is not so much convincing him as presenting him with a fait accompli” stating that men should not have an ability to control when they decide to have children.
Feminists like Phillips are so concerned about having power over men that they do not want men to have the ability to decide when they will have children -
www.palomar.edu/.../

And if so, would it matter to you wether he had dated a trans woman before?

My girlfriend admitted she sometimes worries that I stay with her because other women won't want to date me after I've been with her. I told her the kind of women who care about that wouldn't date me anyway, I'm with her because I want to be not because I feel stuck.

She didn't seem fully convinced, so I just want to get a small sample here to see if I was wrong or if I just focused on the wrong part.