What are things you're unwilling to compromise on?

[Vesuvius87]

They can be values or anything you believe in. What's something you're radical about and unwilling to compromise on?

For me it would be these two things:

- If he only wants cohabitation is an instant deal-breaker for me. If we're just dating, we're living separately. If he's not at least my fiance (with a date on the wedding), I have no reason to move in with him and have no obligation to prepare him meals. I'd rather with my family or alone than with a boyfriend.

- Someone that's in favor of spanking kids and is the ''old school crowd'' while I'm against it. I can't compromise on that. We would have to find someone like-minded. You won't change my mind and I won't convince you either so bye.

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''I'd rather live with my family or alone than with a boyfriend.''

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I don't mind religion as long as he accepts I'm an atheist and doesn't try to convert me.

[Kaneki05]

Odd on the first stance, one could take years to purpose would be odd to be with someone for years but not think of moving in together. Or perhaps you think one gets married quicker is better that way it's not odd but honestly that sounds like a much worse idea but that's just my thoughts.

Anyway as for myself.

No Religion/Conservative views they be the same thing really.
Kids in the first place, I've been around kids and I just have no clue how one deals with them therefore won't try plus they are really annoying. So unless if it's somehow very off hand parenting from my side I don't see it happening.

And then I guess a lot of minor things but they would be more things that pop up after I think this person is perfect and see none of the big issues.

[lightbulb27]

I don't recall anymore, I have them. drugs is one of them.

Agree, have commitment.

I'd rethink the spanking thing. It should be rare or never and is generally not needed. Some people need to be spanked or will get a lot out of it. They learn a hard boundary. I got spanked twice, it was excessive and unnecessary. I see kids today that need spanked but don't get it, so they end up being screwed up. They will pay for it later in life due to lack of learning boundaries.

[NathanDavis]

no racists, no sexist, no homophobia...

basically, if you hold hatred for groups of people because they're different than you... then I don't usually get in relationships with that kind of people

[Agape93]

If you're a sex offender, loved one or not, you best get the fuck away from me because otherwise, I will happily hurt you or worse, likely much worse.

If I don't want to do something, like obey a law on my own land, or sex, I won't do it. Period.

If you fuck with my loved ones, I'll fuck with you worse.

[ArrowheadSW]

Someone who is mean to people in public. Such as talking down to cashiers in stores or to wait staff in restaurants. To me it is a big turn-off. I might discuss it with her but if there was no improvement then I'd have to move on.

[Anonymous]

Loyalty. If you're not with me you're against me. And I'm perfectly fine with you being against me.

[dolemite58]

I agree on the living together part.

I don’t want marriage or kids so if a girl is dead set on those things I’m not the one she’s looking for

[888theGreat]

I have to marry a Christian , non believer is out. I also don't think Catholics are really Christian.

[Anonymous]

Must not be feminine or submissive in bed

[OtterMan68]

Faith and family