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He had mentioned his type is big boobs after I made a joke when he asked me to send him photos of mines again. He said mines are amazing and was buzzing when he saw I actually had boobs because he thought I was all bum. I have a big bum and small boobs. He even said he’s becoming a bum guy from me.

He’s told people he’s obsessed with me before even seeing my boob size etc.

We’ve had sex a few times and it’s been good he does finish very quickly but we’re getting there

But he’s so off sometimes with me. He is busy but it just seems he doesn’t want to put time in to it but then says he really likes me and he’s super keen and goes on about how much he fancies me and likes me. For example he canclled on sat and then the next week said he could only see me one day and I said why not these days and he said i suppose I could. But only offered to see me one day the following week. It’s only been 3 weeks. The first week he came over twice and it was late and he has work super early. Then ended up cancelling sat which wasn’t his fault why he did. But to only offere me one day the following week seems weird to me. So I just said let’s leave this I don’t want to take it further for him to say no please let me come on that day and we will talk etc. I ended up cancelling on him because I’m exhausted and he wants to see me on Sunday now.

I do think I’m maybe. Overthinking the how he is with me

But can this even work if I’m not his type? Is this why I get this feeling?

I know how much of a guy like big boobs he wants that and only that just like if a guy likes big bum he does. I’ve a big bum so everyone I’ve been with was obsessed over it

I got married a year ago and we had several issues in the first 6 months of our marriage especially because of my toxic in-laws. My in-laws came to my house and threatened me, started swearing and made me visibly shaken. For the past several months, my husband seemingly improved and started standing up for me. We then tried to conceive and fell pregnant shortly after. However, things with my in-laws escalated and they consistently started disrespecting me. My MIL complained about me to the point where I felt I couldn’t even breathe without them accusing me of something. My husband comes home crying if I "upset" his mum, but even if they clearly verbally harass me, he shows no remorse.

I told my husband about this and he called me a "cr*zy b*tch", we got into an argument and he threatened to punch my pregnant belly tho he knew I was 6 weeks pregnant (something he's never done before).

I froze and the next day told him that I don't feel comfortable with him attending the first prgenancy scan. He says I'm being unreasonable as that's his child and that I have no right to do this to him.