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So, recently talking to my bestie, she and I realized how both our boyfriends tend to lack empathy.

My boyfriend is so stubborn that he isn't wiling to yield on certain things, or, even consider that he could be in the wrong. It has resulted in fights between us, ending with him being confused. I ask him questions like "if you were in my shoes, and I said that to you, how would that make you feel?"... and he then will come to realization, and apologize, or at least meet me halfway.

Do you think its possible to make someone more empathetic?

He said he will return it. He gambled a lot of money, his own (I don't know how much), 200 of mine and 800 that he borrowed. In comparison I make 1200 a month. So he gambled what would be my monthly salary and probably more. He makes around 3000 or more. But it seems he has a big gambling problem.

He saw messages on my phone that I am planning to get an additional job to do in the afternoon. And he said that I must not work that much and that I need to think about the baby. I snapped at him told him that I really need the money. All I have now is like 3 euros which can get me a cup of coffee around here and he tells me not to work that much. As if I have a choice... He didn't leave me any. I keep crying he says he is sorry but that he can't do anything about it, that it is in the past.