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I've personally known this guy for 5 months. I initiated conversation first and followed him first. We began texting each other and I ended up asking him out. Even though he agreed, he canceled on me twice. Despite him eventually telling me that he wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted to be friends, we still would text each other, a few times for hours til the early morning. He did admit to liking me and being attracted to me. One of the last things he texted me was, "although I was supposed to go to bed, know I'm thinking about you and I care about you".

A week later in person, I asked him, "How would you feel if you were to never see me again? How would you feel if we never spoke again?" His response was, "To be honest, I don't know how I would feel. I don't know". I just nodded my head and moved on. But what does this mean when a guy says this?

A guy & I had something in the past but we broke up and became friends but there was still some chemistry by the way us. Suddenly, he starts being hot and cold towards me, he'll avoid me one moment and talk to me the next, he just kept switching for no reason. He's a player, he moves from girls to girls for fun, trying to make me jealous too but the relationship doesn't work. We started talking again then he starts snubbing me again and he gets involved with another girl, I thought he's playing her too & trying to make me jealous but they look really happy together tbh. I'm really heartbroken and stuck, I can't move on from him & I have a small feeling he still likes me but his ego is getting in the way. I don't know what to do, I just can't continue feeling like my heart is slowly shattering everyday, I'm seriously hurting. I feel so weak and vulnerable & I hate myself for ever loving him. I honestly wanted to make him feel as horrible as I feel but I'm too nice for that. Its messing with my life ; sleep, school etc cause I was deeply in love with him. Even now, I still can't hate him as i love him. How do I feel nothing towards him? How do I act cold and emotionally unavailable around him? I just want to be free of my feelings, so he wouldn't have power over my emotions anymore. I want to go back to being the flirtatious, happy person I once was. What do I do? How do I detach myself from him? Please help!