No one has ever had a crush on me. I'm not that beautiful, I never was. Throughout my whole life I've been invisible, like I'm not really there. But my YOUNGER sister is the opposite, she is very beautiful, she looks like a model, very above average. And don't hit me with the "oh but you're sisters so you probably look alike" NO! Not at all, we don't look related.
I watch guys fall in love with her all the time, that's what I've pretty much done my whole life. Over 5 or 6 guys has liked her and she is 13. Not one has liked me and I am 15 (I am 14 months older than her) . First time a guy liked her she was maybe 4 or 5. I didn't think too much about it though and ignored it. It was the second time where it really hurt me. I was 7 or 8 and she was 6 maybe. We all had a friend that visited and I had a HUGE crush on him. He was the same age as me. I thought about him all the time, did everything in my power to make him like me and so on. Then I found out that he had a crush on my sister, and it really broke me. It hurt my heart so much and I was only 7 or 8.
Ever since then I've been obsessing over these kind of things, and only more guys kept on liking her.
We got another friend when she was 8 and I 9, he was OBSESSED with her and so nice, confessed to her and everything. I got really jealous and hurt again.
Then ANOTHER guy liked her, who was our friend. Same thing again.
And THEN when I was 13 another guy I had a really huge crush on liked my sister. Guys don't even look at me.
Right now I have a crush on this guy, but like always, he has a crush on my sister. He told me that he liked her.
I always catch him staring at her.
I feel so hopeless and disgusting, invisible. Literally no one has liked me, trust me I would know. I can tell when someone likes someone.
I just get my heart broken over and over and over again and I feel like killing myself. She's so beautiful and I look like a goblin.
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Okay, instead of giving you some cliche, generic, "You look fine!" Or, "You haven't found the right guy yet!"
Do better.
You're not happy with your looks right?
Ask your sister or a close friend to give you a makeover. Exercise and lose weight or tone up. Watch some videos online, or read books on improving your self esteem and confidence.
What I'm saying is work on yourself: if you don't think you're dateable, ask yourself why, then actively work to improve... not just for a guy, but for yourself.
This is good advice, but I think that the thing that makes me ugly is my face, not my body or anything like that. But I could use some excersise and self esteem improvement. Do you have any reccomendations?
Hmm, I don't wear makeup so unfortunately I can't offer much help there 😕
What about your face is "ugly" if you don't mind me asking? (ie: scars, acne, expression)
And yes! There are a TON of free, awesome trainers on YouTube if you have wifi or internet. Just type in "cardio workouts at home" or weight training if you want to build muscle (you will NOT look like a guy lifting weights- it will actually give you a nice figure and help with fat loss).
I follow: hasfit, syndey cummings, caroline girvan, fitnessblender, and juice and toya... just to name a few!
They're workouts are beginner friendly as well
Thank you, I will start to workout. Hopefully it'll make some visible change. And my face is just ugly overall. I have wrinkles, nasal folds, wrinkly eyes and cheeks, forehead etc probably because of stress, bad sleep and terrible mental health throughout the years. I also have a terrible overbite and big nose, small lips, I'm asymmetrical, masculine forehead, evil looking eyes etc. I'm just not beautiful and nothing will make me beautiful either.
Keep the guys you like away from your sister. Meet guys who don’t know her and don’t introduce them.
I can't, they always find out about her eventually.
Can I have a photo of you?
I'm not allowed to post my face on the internet, and I don't want to do this on this site because you can't remove it afterwards. Maybe I could sned you my face somewhere else.
- https://unsee.cc
- http://tinyurl.com/contact-alberto
@es20490446e. Fucking pervert.
@KrakenAttackin Why don't you shut the fuck up?
I'm asking for a photo of her face, to see if she is really that ugly.
Because most the time, it's nonsense.
Pedo.
@KrakenAttackin You can apologize at the above email. Till then blocked.
The link you sent me doesn't work.
Then you can simply direct message me by visiting my profile.