Search Results: ex as a friend

Why would people let the relationship progress into 2 years of abuse?

So I came out of a 2 year relationship ultimately she broke up with me because I finally stood up to her abuse. But there was something her mom said a while back that made me reflect on the time as a she goes I hope she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex boyfriend asks to be FWBs due to his new girlfriend being asexual. opinions?

Long story is ex boyfriend been talking to me lately, and seems friendly, end game is to have me as a friends with benefits as his new girlfriend is asexual.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I doomed here?

How can I best handle my current dilemma? : my friend who I’m crushing on pretty hard, wants to remain friends with her ex who treated her very poorly, and I’m worried she is trying to rekindle their relationship, and as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why my guy friend treated me like I am pr0stitute?

We have been texting each other a lot these days. It was 2am. He texted me saying “i am ur client/customer”. I felt like he humiliated me as if i am pr0st*****. But i did not say anything to him because i thought maybe i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Please help me understand him?

So I have been seeing this guy for 4 months we met on Snapchat and have been talking consistently and even ended up being number 1 on both each-others friends list we finally met in person and everything seemed to be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend tells me he hates his ex, but, does he?

Even though My boyfriend isn't friends with his EX on social media he liking her posts and viewing her stories, they also send messages to eachother every now and again, though none of them are romantic, he has never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fantasising about ex?

I’m in a 7 year relationship with 2 kids. In the whole time me and my partner have been together I’ve never spoken with this ex (we were never actually together, just slept together the odd time). This ex messaged me last...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's the difference between honeymoon phase and people pretending to be someone they are not for sex?

I have a few friend who said they dated men who ended up turning super toxic after a year of dating or turn into a completely different person then who they fall in love with. Is this the same as the honeymoon phase or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m trying to understand if it was self-sabotage or if he truly wanted out of the relationship because of me?

I was dating a guy for a few months and he told me he wanted something serious and long-term with me numerous times. He noted that his biggest insecurity was that the girl he was dating would find someone better than him...

fionaulrich

Xper 2 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think my relative needs counseling to deal with her divorce?

I have a 28yrd old cousin and legally she got divorced last November but she was alreayd separated from her ex for about 9 mos or so. They did not have kids and they were married for like 2 years and a half. I dont know...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do you think I should’ve given her a chance? Or is this for the better?

So like almost two years ago, I asked out this girl at my gym. And she ghosted me. And it’s honestly because she saw my ex on my phone screen, when I was getting her number. Anyways, when I would see her at the gym, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Friend/Ex/Situation?

Kind of want a guy’s thoughts on this. My ex and I decided to remain friends after the relationship, seeing as we were friends before the relationship started. This was decided at the beginning of the relationship, as it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy told me he can't marry me. When I agreed he became hurt? I'm now confused?

We met and have been talking for a few months. Lately he's been calling me every night. He was very persistent in the beginning. Then he began to tell me that he can't really date me because I am a few years older and he...

sukana10

Xper 1 Age: 33

Why does an ex all of a sudden want to be back in your life and act as a friend?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Heartbreak and confusion - now she’s wanting to talk…but “heavy convo”. What does this all mean?

Backstory: My ex girlfriend and I had been together for 6 months. It was the most beautiful relationship I had ever been in (I’m in my 30’s), full of love, fun, respect… We had our arguments, but what couples don’t? We...

Heartbrkn89

Xper 2 Age: 37

Guys, Friends with benefits?

I have recently broken up with my ex and within a week of moving out he messaged me to see if we could be friends with benefits. now we haven’t even slept in the same room for months due to separating so I was very...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Confused. How do I approach this?

Hey everyone. I’m in a situation that I’m unsure how to approach. My boyfriend’s best friend recently started dating my boyfriend’s ex’s sister. His best friend is close with his ex as well since he started her sister. My...

lostgirl005

Xper 2 Age: 29

My male best friend demands all my time and attention even though he insists he’s in love with his ex. But he won’t let me breathe without him. Why?

So I (28F) met this guy (28M) on a dating app two years ago. We hit it off, but then a month later he started acting distant. He finally told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship… weeks later he admitted it was because...

Anonymous

(25-29)