Why my guy friend treated me like I am pr0stitute?

[Anonymous]

We have been texting each other a lot these days. It was 2am. He texted me saying “i am ur client/customer”. I felt like he humiliated me as if i am pr0st*****. But i did not say anything to him because i thought maybe i am misunderstanding. But later he said something double meaning. What should i do. I hate to be treated like this by men. My ex also said something like this to me. He said “what is ur rate” when is denied to sleep with him. Later i knew what he meant by that. I am very affectionate person. And i do not understand why men treat me this way. I do not wear revealing too. Is it my fault that men think like this about me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, don't even think for a second this is your fault! Those guys were WAY out of line treating you like that.

Any real friend or potential partner would respect your boundaries, not make crude jokes about paying for sex. That's just trashy behavior on their part.

The most important thing is how you feel - and it sounds like that crap made you uncomfortable, as it should. You deserve so much better than men who only see you as an object.

If I were you, I'd give that "friend" a piece of your mind. Tell him his "jokes" were unacceptable and made you feel disrespected. You don't need rude fools like that in your life!

And your ex can eat dirt too. Any guy who can't take no for an answer isn't worth your time. You don't owe sex to anyone.

Stay proud of who you are sis - a caring woman worthy of real respect. The right people will see your heart, not judge your looks. Keep shining!

[Anonymous]

Maybe he has a kink for client/prostitute roleplay

[Bethany22]

First of all, if you're responding to his texts soon after he texts them so late at night, then that gives him the wrong idea. But when they ask for your rate, you can simply say that your rate includes requiring an exclusive relationship whereby you spend time together at least a certain number of days a week (you decide what's right for you). So rate does not necessarily have to mean monetary. You could just take it as a good opportunity to tell him what your conditions are. You'll be much further ahead than most women if you do.

[Asker]

If i like a guy does that give him right to treat me as wh0re? I have been texting this guy for an year. He never talked sexually to me. He keeps joking that he likes me. all of sudden he said this to me. Does it mean he really think of me as that kind of girl?

[Bethany22]

No, not necessarily. He may just want friends with benefits. Has nothing to do with you.

[Account]

Because you allow it and you keep him as a friend even though he is a piece of shit.
You should delete, block and report 💫

[Asker]

It happened yesterday night and i unfriended him on snap where we used to chat