Search Results: how can i let a guy know that i like him

Guys, What would you guys feel if a girl you’re interested texts you to meet up?

Heya everyone, so there’s this guy I know for many years now. He seem to be interested in me, not liking or loving. He just wants to learn more about me. And so am I. For the last month we’ve been talking to each other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

If you had to pick, are you Left Wing or Right Wing?

I know most people are somewhere near the center but if I make that an option on its own the poll won't work. Lets find out the political leanings of the website and how strong the divide is between girls and guys. No...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know most people are somewhere near the center but if I make that an option on its own the poll won't work. Lets find out the political leanings of the website and how strong the

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Dating

Do South Asian and Middle Eastern guys do date or actively seek Black women?

Now before anyone says this, I know that everyone has free will to do as they please and there’s always an exception to the rule. However I was curious how common is it in today’s society for South Asian and Middle...

IceCreamQueen15

Xper 2 Age: 34

Dating

Why Women Love The Alpha Male

The idea that women are universally attracted to "Alpha Males" is a stereotype and doesn't accurately represent the complexities of human attraction. However, there are some theories that attempt to explain why certain...

coachTanthony

Influencer Age: 55

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Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy who's been interested in me for several months suddenly tell me out of the blue that he's married?

I never asked him about his personal life it's actually him who's always asking me personal questions like where I've studied, where I live, who's in my family, my likes, dislikes etc. He was the one who initiated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is the guy I am dating jealous or insecure?

We met in real life but we are dating long distance for now. He knows I spend time with other online guy friends who we play games with. He has told me in the past to let him know if I am spending time with those guy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Exclusivity after a week 👀?

Title says it all, but long story kind of short: I'm personally enm but happy to be in a monogamous relationship if my partner isn't. Met this guy (monogamous) last Sunday and we've seen each other 4 days out of 8, so to...

Cloeeeeeeeeee

Xper 1 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

On a scale of 1 to 10, how big an idiot am i? Lol but seriously, I need outside perspective on if there is anything there?

So my best friend is a guy. We have been through a lot for each other and known each other for years and have a strong emotional connection. Things have gotten flirtatious but never crossed into sex. I have a strict no...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Can you help me to massively tell this man that by wearing a dress and heels for his wedding, he is no longer a manly man?

Unfortunately he has trouble accepting this truth, look at his question. Let's tell him the truth I know what I'm definitely going to wear on my wedding day, do you like it?

Matthias345

Xper 4 Age: 27

Family & Friends

Was I being insensitive that I told my friend it’s about time she agreed to hang with us?

So my friend’s father passed away in January of this year. She was and still is very devastated about the loss that she didn’t want to go anywhere or do nothing. We let her grieve. I know we’ve been asking of she wanted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Ending an affair?

I’m in the middle of a 6 year affair with a guy I’ve known over 15 years. We are both married with children, we have been having sex the past 2 years. I am fully in love, I would never leave my husband, I love him too. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Anyone is willing to pour out their heart about their breakup or heartbreak by situationship?

You guys can tell everything.. I may or may not reply, but hearing all the stories somehow soothe me a bit as at least i know im not the only one feeling like this.. Its a win-win. U can let everything out from that...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Girls, I'm a brown girl and I find white guys appealing?

Their height, their strength, and their ruggedness fascinates me. I'm about 5' 4 and I'm dating a white guy about 6 feet. He is strong and confident and knows how to talk to me and compliment me. Once, we went to the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is it completely Odd for another female who is currently in a relationship to allow another female to sleep with her own boyfriend?

This guy who lives with me has claimed that his own girlfriend was allowing and told me that I can have sex with her boyfriend since she can't give him the enjoyment & sex with them. Since the new girlfriend told me that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Dating

Should I let my friend know im crushing on him or just ignore it to save the friendship?

I feel like I'm come off really bad and shallow I'm this but here goes. I made friends with this guy about a year ago. We instantly connected as friends and I found him so funny and kind. He'd always put himself down for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

How do I let go of stuff that’s hurting me? How do I know that it won’t happen again?

I need to tell you guys what fully happened for you guys to understand so a few weeks ago I was pulled into the ladies toilets by my carer saying she thinks I’m unhappy and I should go and get a new carer! I mean it just...

LaurenM1997

Yoda Age: 29

Relationships

What should I do?

So let me start by saying I’m a horrible person but I had a boyfriend who me and him was having problems and then I start seeing this guy I work with he is older I’m in my 20 he is in 31 we start having sex and I got...

Ziggy5052029

Xper 1 Age: 22

Family & Friends

My Bestfriend been acting weird?

I’m not sure if she’s jealous that I have like a good relationship going or what. but so basically, my boy came over. i have a private bathroom in my bedroom that is just a toilet and sink, but when you use it anyone can...

moonlitten

Xper 2 Age: 24

Dating

I started to have feelings for this guy, but I think I blew my shot now. What do I do?

So me and this guy have been hanging out and talking for over a year. I didn’t want anything from him, so we decided to stay friends. We would hang out and chat, as I felt he was too clingy. I do still have dating apps as...

Anonymous

(25-29)