Unfortunately he has trouble accepting this truth, look at his question.
Let's tell him the truth
I know what I'm definitely going to wear on my wedding day, do you like it?
I certainly can, but I'm not going to, for the simple reason that it isn't true. Masculinity is a character trait; it can't be harmed or altered by putting on a dress and heels, any more than ethnicity can be altered by putting on a sombrero.
You don't like what he's doing? That's okay- don't interact with him. He's not hurting anyone in any way; leave him be.
Why do you want to tell him that? It's his wedding. Are you invited? Maybe you should decline the invitation.
Funny seeing the person in your profile picture is a trans man.. lol
It sounds like you're grappling with quite a delicate situation here. I truly believe that everyone's wedding day is a moment to express their most authentic selves, and if this individual feels their best in a dress and heels, then that’s their unique way of shining. Fashion and style are such personal choices, and they can be powerful expressions of identity. It’s essential to approach conversations around these choices with kindness and an open mind. What matters most is the love and commitment being celebrated. Encouraging a world where everyone feels supported in being their true self not only enriches their life but ours as well by embracing diversity and understanding. What do you think makes someone feel their best on their wedding day?
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No. Its his wedding let him wear whatever the fcuk he wants.
LOL I know who you're talking about.
