My Bestfriend been acting weird?

[moonlitten]

I’m not sure if she’s jealous that I have like a good relationship going or what. but so basically, my boy came over. i have a private bathroom in my bedroom that is just a toilet and sink, but when you use it anyone can hear you use in in my room and whenever i have like someone over and they gotta go a #2 they use the downstairs bathroom so 1- my room doesn’t stink 2- i don’t hear it and it’s awk you know. anyways. my boy came over and spent the night in the morning he had to go #2 and like this is his second time using that bathroom, for that since us hanging out (about 4 months). so he’s using is and she texts me and asks if i’m in bathroom and i let her know it’s my boy in there and i said if she needed to use bathroom bad she could use mine and i would leave the room. then she starts to complain and said that they pay for the stuff in the bathroom, and that when we have people over it’s not the same bc it’s “her” guests (even tho we both ask the people to come over so they are also mine) and that since he used the bathroom it’s not fair bc they pay for the stuff and i literally gave her a 10$ soap bc they were running low for FREE. then she said well it’s different bc they are my guests and our other roommate feels the same (which i call BS bc he has only used the bathroom twice). then i literally had to apologize for him using the bathroom, and said he would never use it again and that it’s not that deep. and said sorry 👍. which was just weird like he’s just using the bathroom. then she texts me apologizing if she came off rude and hope that we are good and i told her that well i didn’t think it was that big of a deal bc when your ex boi would come over he would do his laundry here. like multiple loads each week. so my boyfriend using the bathroom now twice downstairs = for him to never use it again, and i should help pay but your ex could do his laundry and shi here. doesn’t make any since. she’s been acting weird lately so what do you guys think of this?

[Anonymous]

so is the downstairs bathroom hers? if so, yeah i'd be pissed too. it has nothing to do with your relationship with your "boy"

[moonlitten]

we’ve been living together for 2 years. first year i said anyone can use the bathroom upstairs but i’ll keep my stuff in there. i had 3 other roommates and one of them would use my bathroom when i’m not here and i didn’t care. the shower is downstairs. there are no names on bathrooms since literally i said anyone can use my bathroom, and vice versa. there had never been a rule in place that people couldn’t use the bathroom downstairs. so the bathroom downstairs is literally for everyone who comes over to the house etc. and i mean if him using the bathroom once is the end of the world, us girls has to pay for her ex using our wash machine and dryer where he’d do hella loads each time. so it didn’t make sense to me she’d get so mad that he’s now used it twice in 4 months. in addition, i have cleaned that bathroom. scrubbed the toilet, washed the shower their sink and given them soap. so that’s why i was confused about the whole thing. i brush my teeth upstairs. their sink gets gross asf sometimes. so i end up cleaning it. lol. so i don’t get why she got pissed when he barely uses it

[Anonymous]

Everything about this post is weird.

[moonlitten]

i agree it’s weird asf. i have deeper explanation w the other comment. i even talked to my mother about it because she’s like why is she mad about someone using a bathroom. I don't know it doesn’t make sense so now i just told my boy that he’s never allowed to use the bathroom downstairs anymore lol. i was pretty upset about the whole thing just bc of the house work i do for that bathroom in addition to providing things for them for free. —i have 3 other roommates. one doesn’t live here anymore but pays the rent still bc it’s a year lease.