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That's what my older 41 year-old sister did. Would you say that's still not ok or was it fair?

She's a business owner herself but not married to an awkward engineer in 2015 (she was then 34) and had her very first child in the following year at the age of 35 1/2. She never cheated and actually wants to age with him. She claims to be happy but this is what she once recently confessed to me: She loves him as her life partner but she's not in love with him and sometimes sex seems like a routine. Nevertheless, she tries to do her best to please him, even fakes organisms. She's never going to tell him that though.

To be honest, he's not really an attractive man either. To get an idea of how her husband type looks like, it's kind of like this guy:

That's not her husband but that's similar to how his type looks like. He's not that ugly but isn't too attractive either. Like that guy, sometimes the glasses don't make him look good either.

Who do you would have more empathy for the opposite gender? If your own gender acted like a POS (making the rest of you look bad), playing with people's feelings, using people for their own selfish needs/pleasure... who would actually feel terrible?

- A user that either lies to young women and enjoys wasting their time with false promises. As long as he's getting all the sex he wants he'll continue using women for years (faking love too); he doesn't care about the woman's goals nor wants. It's all about himself. He even uses some women for money too and never pays their money back.

- A golddigger that goes after wealthy man, plays the ''I'm traditional, waiting till marriage'' card to get what she wants. Her plan is to get married and then either file for divorce years later or simply staying married and cheat on him endlessly. She's a user and doesn't care. It's all about herself.