Sex dream about my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for almost 10 years now. He is a Christian , the type that believes in no sex before marriage, where as I believe in God and all of that, but not necessarily the no sex before getting married. I do believe that if you and your partner love each other enough to be intimate with each other, then you should if you feel your relationship is at that level, and if you feel ready.

I don't want to push him into anything, but I'm not sure how to bring up the fact that I want us to be intimate without upsetting him. I'm honestly not sure if me telling him this would upset him or not.

He is a super sweet, loving man, and I love him to death, but like I said, we've been on and off for nearly 10 years and he hasn't even poped THE question yet.

Sorry for the long explanation, but I felt that the backstory might be relevant. I guess my question is, what does/could my sex dream about him mean?

[Guy13]

Off and On sounds like there’s not a Commitment. It may not be a good time? It might be off permanently…that may not be bad though?

[TheFlak38]

proof that there is no conservative traditional woman. What she basically says is "I'm so christian and traditional. But I have to have the right to whore myself into oblivion."

[Kreneman]

You mentioned that you & your boyfriend have been on & off for Ten years, that is a problem especially since he haven't popped the question yet. The part that he is a Christian and having no sex before marriage, the bible does support that. You need to have a serious conversation with him to see where you both are at in this relationship especially marriage. If he says that he is not ready or makes excuses then he is not for you.

[Avicenna]

It means you're ready to have sex

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a dud, move on.

[Iron_Man]

Respect his wishes don’t push it he’ll regret it

[Anonymous]

You feel its time to do the deed?