We never really broke up as my parents had me sent away when they caught me with my girlfriend during a "sleep over" at age 17, wed been together as a couple since age 13. My parents are very strict Christians. Anyway my ex has never really been able to accept it, that I'm now straight and happy with my family and that I love my husband. She's gotten to be a very militant feminist since college with the hair, clothes, piercings, tatoos, protests with antifa, lgbtq all that. Anyway she insults me in the street, she tried to ruin my wedding, turned up drunk to my first child's Christening and has been violent which is why I have a restraining order. Once at church she turned up and told the congeragation about how i used to love her eating my "box" and other crude stuff related to our past. When we were together I was just a child and didn't know that I had stumbled off Jesus's path into sin, I confess it was very pleasurable and I loved her but not as much as I love my husband and kids. Since the therapy and with much prayer I've never felt attraction to any woman or man other than my husband. I've prayed for her, hoping she would accept God and save herself from sin. How do I get her to move on and leave me alone, its been 5 years.
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I'm not the bad guy just because I've chosen nor to be a lesbian and live a good Christian life as a loving mother and wife, honoring my parents and God. I made no promises to her, she should move on.
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Anyone any ideas?
My parents put my into Gay Conversion Thearpy but my ex has been acting crazy since I married my husband and had kids. How do I deal with her?
Keep praying. Has she been arrested for breaching her restraining order? the thing is, it seems she hasn’t got over you. You can’t make her get over you either. That’s on her and it’s a shame that she can’t move on with her life and find her own happiness
Omfg please, you are part of a cult. You must of been brainwashed real good. Religion created by man, to have more hate and racism. You broke her heart and she lost it. When will religion die out finally?
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She's Hispanic yes but I'm not racist for dumping her. I don't hate anyone. I'm happy with what God has graced me with my children and husband.
@shortster problem I have is no one knows exactly wrote the bible for all we know could been a guy living on the street how can 2 people who love each other seen as sin and your born straight or gay because I couldn't turn gay as I am straight not really anyone's business if 2 people love gay or not it dosen't hurt anyone only hurt can do is the people using hate against them
@mattissebfan5 I specifically said that it was a sin for women to have sex with one another. Also the asker mentioned that they were having sex before her parents broke them up.
Why even try? Religious people are so brainwashed. They can't think for themselves or live their own life. They need their religious cults to tell them how to live. When will religion die out?
Don't think my husband would go for it, she's really let herself go. like she used to be so pretty and in great shape but since she went off to college she's all weird hairstyles, men's clothes, dog collars and 5 bellies. It's sad really.
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