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Recently I caught my boyfriend calling and texting a woman of his caste and I'm not of his caste. He told me he was frustrated with me that's why he went behind my back despite us patching up post 24 hrs breakup always. Now I asked the girl if they slept and she said that she met him on bumble and she said that he was asking for casual sex and nothing serious to which she said no. He said me that he was sorry to get distracted and that it naturally happened. He bdw blocks me badly whenever we fight instead of resolving. I love him but he was never romantic and never did anything special for me. Many times I felt he took me for granted but since we are together since 2 years in this relationship I have lots of feelings for him and he apologised to me that he is devoted to me and will never get distracted. Whenever I miss him and I cry to him, he never cries or gets emotional to have missed me if we haven't met him for many days. But he said me that whenever he was distracted after he broke up with me for like 24 hours, he said me that he tried to find me in another woman always and then he missed me and always came back to me. I have never ever broken up with him ever. ( We always patched up after 24 hrs by resolving post him breaking up with me many times) I don't really know if he is completely loyal to me because of this. I trust his words that he is loyal to me but him telling me that I should love him more when he gets distracted make me wonder if he really loves me or not.

I met a Korean guy (25 m) online, he is a soldier. by the way I'm 22f. We've been talking since the end of January. We also called each other and talked on the phone. He asked me for a body pic once before, but I refused. I said I might consider it once we had a closer relationship. He and I talked on the phone today and I asked him if we could maybe FaceTime afterward. He told me we could do it. He said he had training to go to and then we could do it. He also asked me why I wanted to FaceTime. I told him that we had been texting and talking on the phone and that I wanted to see him while we talked. He then brought the subject to sexuality. He asked if we could talk about it. So I said we could talk as long as we didn't go too far cause i barely know him. He asked me if I had had sex before, if I had a boyfriend, when was the last time, and if I ma**ted. He was very surprised when I told him I was a vi***n. He asked how often I do it. And talk abouit it kind of a few minutes. And then I asked him when was the last time he had a girlfriend. He said he last had a girlfriend 2 years ago. He asked if we could talk about it again later. I said I would think about it. I felt a little uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation. I wanted to move forward with him like a boyfriend. I can say that I'm a little disappointed. Do you think I can have him as a boyfriend? How should I proceed? I live in Istanbul and he is near Seoul. How should I proceed with this?