Yay or nay when I'd ask you out for coffee?

[Kris31]

So I was wondering since i think im finally ready to date again (m29) after my long relationship. I decided to not do online dating as it's just not my style i guess ( last time I dated online dating was still considered uncool 😂🤷)
So basically would you be interested or no? I think I take my pride in being a confident 6. I'd walk up to you kindly apologize for the ambush maybe a little small talk if you have time for it and then ask you out for coffee giving you my phone number ( so you don't give yours to a stranger).

So would you message back or should I be prepared for bunch of rejections only because it's not done that way nowadays?

Would date / message back

No way would I date you

Don't go asking people on the street randomly

[Anonymous]

Well you would have to be prepared for a bunch of rejections because it's just a numbers game no matter who is doing it.

[Kris31]

Thanks xD I guess ima have to prepare for it to get some personal no s and hopefully no ews :D

[laly520]

this is wrong place to look for girl
just an advice

[Kris31]

Yes that wasn't my intention I was just wondering what like the general opinions on me might be. Like what others think of me in terms of first impression as the first impression is always the looks (unfortunately?)

[Anonymous]

The beard would be an instant turn-off, and I can tell just by looking at you that we would have little in common.

[Kris31]

Understandable a beard is a huge preference! Thanks for the opinion!

[Anonymous]

You're a cute guy, my only hesitation would be what you want exactly out of the date, i. e sex or a relationship. If it's the former no thank you

[Kris31]

Don't think I can bomb someone right away with this xD but yes very valid concern. I'm definitely into the second option I'm not really into this modern hook-up culture at all that's why I avoid online dating a bit as well

[M4YEDA]

I'm pretty unsocial so I'd just run away even if you were around my age

[Kris31]

Yes the difference is too big xD but for a guys sake at least say no thanks, else that would be mental trauma for someone xD

[M4YEDA]

I am the one with mental trauma lol. I was terrified of grown men as a child. I would start crying and run away if mom forced me to greet a guest. I have overcome that slowly. but I still don't like them