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I’ve been with this guy for 7 years now on and off. We had just got back together and things were going fine. We are both senior execs in different companies so he knows I travel a lot for work. It was my birthday and I had to be in NY for a business gala thing. A guy friend of mine who I’ve talked to once in the past but who I realized I wasn’t interested in messaged me happy birthday and wanted to hang out. I let my guy know everything and asked if he was comfortable with me meeting up with him and that it was fine either way. He said for me to do what I thought was best but then ignored me. I ended up meeting up for dinner with him but took a friend with me to buffer. I was dressed apropriately and didn’t flirt but he messaged the next day and wanted to come to my room etc but I said no. When my guy finally stopped ignoring me, we got back to normal and he said he’d just been busy and asked how it went. I told him what happened and suddenly it went 0-100. He said he knew I’d meet up with my friend and that I likely did something for him to proposition me. He said I kept wasting my time on people like that and called me a whore and lemon car.. he also said he figured that guy would slip something in my drink or that I’d eff my friend and he kind of hoped it happened so he could confirm I was defective. He laughed and said at least now he knew he would never marry me. He was incredibly cruel and said everything to try and hurt me. He has never called me a whore before but he has said slut once in the past when he got jealous. Is this justified? Did I do something that horrible? Is this normal? Sorry, just really upset and trying to make sense of it all.

I was bored as heck and a bit lonely. So I got dress up and went to a local bar.

I was hoping to have a good time and perhaps some good conversation. The most I have gotten was a compliment... Apparently I smell very good 😊 lol. A man I sat by who was with a woman gave me the compliment.

I have to say I am enjoying my time. The wine is sweet

and the music is good but conversation would be nice.

I was hopeful when a hottie fellow came in with a group of friends and made eye contact... Oh yes I could tell he liked what he saw... But I then caught a glance at the ring on his left hand and I turned away.

So I'm curious? Am I being old school? Do people not approach each others in bars anymore?

I never told anyone about it. I don't want to sound crazy but I don't know what to think. Is this pure coincidence or not? What would you think?

Weird event:

3 years ago, I was about to take my car to the same gas station. I usually take it in the early afternoon but I was a bit sick that day and took Paracetamol. For some reason, it felt like a weird day. The pills made me drowsy. During my sleep, I had a brief dream about my late paternal grandma. She died long ago when I was 5. She kept telling me not to go to that gas station, don't go there, don't go there. I kept asking why but she just replied ''Trust me, don't go there. I know what I'm talking. Don't go there. Take the car elsewhere''.

I woke up from that weird dream, got dressed and took my car elsewhere. Then when I got home, I found out there was an explosion at that gas station I avoided going. 2 were killed, 3 were seriously injured and 4 vehicles were destroyed. Needless to say, I was speechless. I could've been dead or badly injured had I gone there.