Why would a guy not want you to dress up all the time?

[Justneedtokno]

He said “ Everything Doesn’t Always Has To Be It Can Be A oh You Off Work Lets Meet Up It Doesn’t Always Get Cute Nd Go Out”

Not sure how to respond.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Maybe he doesn’t want to match your outfit style when you two go out.


Sometimes you don’t want to wear a shirt and tie with slacks because she wears a really fancy outfit. It’s all about finding a balance between you two

[Justneedtokno]

I don’t live with you, so you have no idea what I’m wearing

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I wasn’t making an assumption about you or anything. I was just giving an example of a similar situation between partners within a couple

[Justneedtokno]

Oh no I know I’m just saying that I can’t be wearing the same things if you don’t see or know what I’m putting on it’s not like we live together

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Yeah that’s true. Usually communicate based on the event or activity we’re doing determines our clothing. If it’s just walking around and shopping then casual clothes are usually ideal. If it’s like a fancy restaurant and dinner then yeah that’s fancy/ preppy type of clothing.

Everyone is different so it comes down to communicating with each other

[Justneedtokno]

The way he seems is like us a pop out situation

[legalboxers]

he dont like dressing up

[legalboxers]

ty for mho

[FilmGuy93]

It's a lot fo work, and sometimes it just isn't necessary.

[Sixgunsound]

Maybe he respects and appreciates the amount of effort you put into dressing up and wants to give you a break in a way that would help you relax and be more comfortable? Without knowing anything about the situation or the person in question that’s just a surface read.

[Pinay_ako]

He’s saying you’re already beautiful. You don’t need to do much. He already likes you for you

[Havthrills]

You don't have to dress up all the time. I prefer to see the real her and not an always dressed up "this is me sometimes when I go out."

[Justneedtokno]

Yeah that’s hard because I want to dress up and look nice for the person and I don’t mean like super over doing it but just look nice at least I don’t wanna show up after work and already fired. Look and no

[Havthrills]

A summer dress. That's looks good and not extremely dressed up. Also comfy for you. That kind?

[Jamie05rhs]

I completely agree with him.

What he means is just that you don't have to stress over every date and make it a big deal. Some things can just be casual.

[Justneedtokno]

Yeah that’s hard because I want to dress up and look nice for the person and I don’t mean like super over doing it but just look nice at least I don’t wanna show up after work and already fired. Look and no

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. I guess that's your feminine instincts. No problem.

[Stevefiveo]

That's a negative comment on his part. It sucks that he doesn't appreciate you getting dressed up. I love it when women get dressed up.

[msc545]

Because he probably that if you do that, he has to

[Justneedtokno]

Well I want to be beautiful when you see me.

[msc545]

When who sees you?

[Justneedtokno]

The guy sir

[msc545]

You can be beautiful without getting dressed up and making him feel he has to.

[Justneedtokno]

Yeah that’s hard because I want to dress up and look nice for the person and I don’t mean like super over doing it but just look nice at least I don’t wanna show up after work and already fired. Look and no

[msc545]

Try to differentiate between what you want and what will help him to feel comfortable and act accordingly. Everything in this is a compromise on your part - find a middle ground.

[Philyouup]

he means that you don’t have to impress him, you all ready have.

[NathanDavis]

do whatever you want to do, and to be...

[Alex8736]

He likes you for being yourself

[Justneedtokno]

I haven’t introduce him to just self

[Anonymous]

Maybe she takes too long.

[Anonymous]

He's right, I like natural girls more..

[eagle1951]

go question