I'm 17, 5 feet 3 inches, 118 pounds so not super skinny but not chubby either
some recent pictures of me: link link
i dress really fashionably and dressy but people might think I look stuck-up or something when I'm not.
i have MAJOR self-confidence issues, I mean I think I'm attractive now but I was butt-ugly in middle school/half of high school so I still feel that people think I'm a dog.
personality-wise I am a little shy when meeting new people but I'm really hyper with my friends. I am obsessed with music (listening to and performing). I try to smile a lot (not creepy) instead of looking sad all the time like I used to.
the problem is that NO GUYS approach me, or even guys that I know and have a crush on don't seem interested back- they never ask me out, make a move, etc. it's frustrating because I know that I'm too shy to approach them (fear of getting rejected) but I would love if a guy came up to me once in a while.
now the question: do I look unapproachable? is there any part of me (looks or personality) that would stop a guy from approaching me? be completely honest, even if you have to say "you look like a ******* horse and you'll be alone for the rest of your life". okay try not to be that mean but please be honest... I really want to know what's stopping guys from just coming up and talking to me.
(asking this question again, it got deleted the first time cause I put where I was from... ugh.)
(I know I know caps lock is cruise control for cool I just needed some way to get your attention
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