Why don't guys approach me or ask me out? (Page 2)

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facts about me so you can get an idea-I'm 17, 5 feet 3 inches, 118 pounds so not super skinny but not chubby eithersome recent pictures of me: link linki dress really fashionably and dressy but people might think I look stuck-up or something when I'm not.i have MAJOR self-confidence issues, I mean I think I'm attractive now but I was butt-ugly in middle school/half of high school so I still feel that people think I'm a dog.personality-wise I am a little shy when meeting new people but I'm really hyper with my friends. I am obsessed with music (listening to and performing). I try to smile a lot (not creepy) instead of looking sad all the time like I used to.the problem is that NO GUYS approach me, or even guys that I know and have a crush on don't seem interested back- they never ask me out, make a move, etc. it's frustrating because I know that I'm too shy to approach them (fear of getting rejected) but I would love if a guy came up to me once in a while.now the question: do I look unapproachable? is there any part of me (looks or personality) that would stop a guy from approaching me? be completely honest, even if you have to say "you look like a ******* horse and you'll be alone for the rest of your life". okay try not to be that mean but please be honest... I really want to know what's stopping guys from just coming up and talking to me.(asking this question again, it got deleted the first time cause I put where I was from... ugh.)

greese · Answer

By the photos I give you a 7 out of 10. Your probably more beautiful in real life. What would you do if a guy that looks interested in you started to talk to you?

Anonymous · Answer

You are kind of intimidating. Not that you are, but you look snobby & like a princess.  Nothing you can do about it, but it is intimdating.  Many good looking girls have this factor, just try to soften it up a little, k?

SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ · Answer

your pretty :) Dont worry...be happy Just stay true to yourself. Who cares what anyone thinks of you. Just be you.  :)

flower1000 · Answer

you must be giving signals that your not aproachable to shy be a little more confident and talkative :)

DappleT · Answer

nothing wrong with you , like others said you look good , especially your eyes I'm a sucker for nice eyes. If anything guys might confuse your shyness with being stuck up and probably being 17 is keeping older guys away as well.

Anonymous · Answer

between the dressing really fashionably and being gorgeous your almost unapproachable especially 17-18 year olds lol your just intimidating to most guys except for the player type lol theyll talk to you but then theyll f*** you over

TOXiCLOV3 · Answer

you are really pretty I wished I looked like you :)

Marrryyyyy · Answer

you;re pretty..and you aren't alone. I have the same problem :( wish I could help...or find a solution myself! best of luck!

cutekid · Answer

U gotta live with it,i knw somewhere in d world,plenty of guys would see and want 2 even marry u...be yourself

zakroom · Answer

I looked at your pictures, you look pretty and sexy Paula;;;; I don't know exactly what the problem with guys but maybe this world have a lot of girls comparing to men, so there's a huge competition by the way you girls

destroyer · Answer

I can see nothing wrong, the guys are probably just intimidated by your attractiveness

floydmartyres08 · Answer

Probably intimidated. You look cool, seem cool. Ah fear rules us, it's a pity sometimes :P

girlknowsbest65 · Answer

u look beautiful, but you're only 17!  you just have to wait for the right guy to come along. dont think anything's wrong with you

Rinaxo · Answer

Insecurity is ugly on everyone.  Confidence is always beautiful.

virgo92 · Answer

I'm having pretty much the exact same problem -_-. So I'd like to know too haha.

Anonymous · Answer

they don't have to, someone will only approach you or ask you out if they like you, the way you look, your personality, if you smile are approachable easy to talk to etc

tellyouonetime44 · Answer

ehh... you're okayyy lolz. not even in my leaguee haha. but if you wanna be sexy as me likee you need to make a kissyy face in pics or just likee look more sexierr so guys know you are openn for business. lolz <33

Shakira · Answer

you just answered your own question ;) you need to be confident men love it! be happy with yourself life is so short...walk with your head high!

horsejumper · Answer

its probably because you don't really talk to guys a lot. just go up to someone and say 'hi'

Desires · Answer

Looked at the 2 pics you managed to post :p... You're hot. I'm 17 too btw. Hmm I don't have any confidence so  can't help you with that :$

Anonymous · Answer

You are just 17. You are truly beautiful. What are you worried about? You have a whole life ahead of you. Take it easy.

johari · Answer

The fact that you have self esteem issues is a factor

Anonymous · Answer

you have beautiful eyes, but you are a bit short for my taste though, sorry, but it wouldn't hold me back if I really liked you

FernandoS · Answer

I don't know why, I think you look awsome so no need to worrie bout that ;).

jamesland77 · Answer

I would totally ask you out.  but maybe you should ask a guy out...guys dig that.

defytraditiongirl · Answer

why don't you start approaching guys and asking them out? screw chivalry!

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with a lot of the girls.. you are gorgeous :D.. you're lucky! :P

TheVirgin · Answer

Wanna go out? lol. Your cute and you should have no problems with men.

rayshawn23 · Answer

I think your very attractive and have beautiful eyes! :)

jahhuit · Answer

u are obviously pretty, which means that they are intimidated.

internet_user · Answer

You look like a fairy and everyone's dream girl

KERMlT · Answer

Wow, nice eyes but I'd say you are pretty skinny.

NonchalantBro · Answer

too pretty-- get uglier--and dumber, if possible

cacapisu · Answer

wow, you look great, I sure I would approach you

Gravy_Davey · Answer

Awww your cute :) Love your eyes.

Musclecarman · Answer

Your actually quite good looking.

Anonymous · Answer

Urmmm, links aren't working ... :s

lily85462155 · Answer

you are very beautiful :)

qwertyuiopasdfghjklz · Answer

because they are dumb, your very pretty .

XIIISins6 · Answer

patience is a virtue.

anqiwong · Answer

you looks nice , just wait .

Picopa · Answer

guys are crap...

Anonymous · Answer

Where is the link?

mahalic007 · Answer

? you believe in god

Anonymous · Answer

they are crazy

pancapen · Answer

go ahead,??!  

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