Search Results: pursue

Pursued me then rejected me?

This guy pursued me first, and asked me out. I agreed and then he came up with a proper date plan and he seemed to be into me. Then a few days after finalizing our date plans, he randomly texted me saying he's canceling...

blueberry750

Xper 2 Age: 22

If you haven't yet agreed to date exclusively, do you feel comfortable dating more than one person at the same time?

When I say "at the same time," I am not asking about going out with two different girls next Friday at 8 pm. I don't think many people would ever agree to such a thing. I am talking about going out with Sandy on Friday...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

When I say "at the same time," I am not asking about going out with two different girls next Friday at 8 pm. I don't think many people would ever agree to such a thing. I am talking

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Is he romantically interested in me?

I have a guy friend whom im interested in. He rarely texts me first. Unless i go days without texting him. However, he is always the one to arrange get togethers. And he drops compliments every now and then that shows he...

temalyan

Xper 1 Age: 26

Should I pursue a relationship with my female friend or a femboy I met online?

So long story short is that I have this friend that I grew incredibly close with a few years ago. It got to the point where she sent me nudes and when I asked if it was okay for me to look at them (I know, stupid of me to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What can I do about feeling guilty about emotionally cheating on my boyfriend? Please read the details?

I've been in this relationship since August 2023, I was the one who really wanted to be in this relationship as he was my crush since a few years, but I realised a major thing that if the guy don't pursue you himself, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

Can a poor man pursue marriage?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What draws you to a person romantically (other than physical characteristics)?

I recently listened to Alain De Botton addressing employees at Google, and he was making a point about how we tend to be drawn toward people that feel familiar, rather than people who are good for us in romantic...

TheRealPepperPotts

Yoda Age: 34

Would you still get jealous even tho you decided to not pursue things further?

A few months algo I stopped talking to this guy after he opened up about not emotionally available and we just weren’t aligned with what the other one wanted which is fine, I truly believe he liked me, he once said he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I've been told that I should find what makes me happy and pursue it to find meaning in life... but what if my purest interests are all self-serving?

Most things that make me happy are largely hedonist, debaucherous, rebellious, and at times shocking though not illegal or necessarily exploitative of anyone. I will not go into detail, but anything that falls outside the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I feel like I’m not getting asked out because everyone assumes I’m young?

Literally had someone tell me the other day I look 16 when I’m really 26. I know I look young always have.. good genes I guess. But I also know a ton of people including guys comment on how good looking I am. Even had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it just me or has ghosting become the standard?

I’ve been using dating apps since 2018 and have met multiple boyfriends including LTRs through them. I recently redownloaded hinge and bumble a couple months ago after 3 years of not using them. I’ve been on many dates...

Delle123

Xper 3 Age: 28

Guys, How should I handle this situation? Is there a chance this guy likes me still?

So I met this guy organically 3 months ago and we would hang out here and there, but he never pursued me much. So when my ex had reached out to me after 6 months of no contact and said he wanted to work things out with me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is up with this guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I have a female coworker who is slowly trying to get me to open up to her?

I have a female coworker who is slowly trying to get me to open up to her. I have no problems working with everybody else except this female coworker. When she sees me, she always says hi, scott04sa22 every time. Then...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Guys call me a “good woman,” but then why don’t they want a relationship with me?

Every guy that shows some interest in me says I’m a “good woman”. Usually because we agree on things like gender roles, politics, religion, etc. They all say the same things to me. “You’re so nice and sweet” “you’re so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hobbies & Leisure

How do you ignite the spark of your life-long passion again?

I feel like I've ended up in some sort of dead-end road instead of a one-way-street towards the life and career I was pursuing. I am certain that the last years played a huge role in it - the pandemic, not being able to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why won't he kiss me?

Today was my third date with this guy and we still haven't kissed, but he wants to keep seeing me. Why won't he kiss me? Maybe he is just shy? He only gives hugs but he is saying he wants to pursue this relationship and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do believe relationships have to be initiated by the man for it to work long term?

Natalie Portman pursued Benjamin Millipied and he cheated on her Jennifer Hudson pursued David Otunga and he quit his job and used her for money for ten years Mckenzie Scott pursued Jeff Bezos and Bezos left her for...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41