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So here are some statics on crime in America to help frame up the discussion.

www. graphics/investigations/police-shootings-database/

So according to FBI/DOJ statics in regards to police shootings, as you see Blacks are shot by police at a rate of 1 per every 40 million Black people. Whites are shot by police 1 for every 16 million. So this is concerning, but is it? 🤔

www.crime-in-the-u.s/2018/crime-in-the-u.s.-2018/tables/table-43

As you see in the numbers above, total number of Whites arrested in 2018 were 5.3 million. Total number of Blacks arrested was 2.1 Million. So 69% of all arrests were Whites, and 27% of all of all arrested were Blacks.

But as you look at the numbers for murder arrests. There were a total of 3,953 Whites arrested for murder, but there were 4,778 Blacks arrested for murder. That means 44.1% of all murder arrests were Whites, and 53.3% of all murder arrests where Blacks.

www. statistics/183489/population-of-the-us-by-ethnicity-since-2000/

So you see total population numbers for Whites and Blacks in the United States there were approximately 250 million White people, and 44 million Black people. So Blacks roughly make up 15% of the total population but account for 27% of all arrests and 44% of all murders, and are shoot by police at twice the rate of white people. But at 27% crime rate means blacks commit crime nearly 2 to 1 compared to Whites, and commit nearly 3 to 1 more murders. So Blacks are15% of the total population of United States and account for 27% of all crimes, and 53% of all murders.

So does means Black are commit crimes at twice the rate as Whites, murder at over 3 times the rate of whites?

So what are these social injustice types trying to tell us?

The answer really comes down to if you're willing to believe that the higher crime rates amoung blacks is due to systematic racial discrimination by Whites. Meaning its not their fault, its the white guys fault.

I am not seeking validation otherwise, I would have posted a selfie and asked if you thought I was attractive. The truth is that I am not butt ugly and some girls will call me "okay" while others will say they have no attraction to me whatsoever. The reason I still can get girls is because I am okay looking, and some will settle for me. The thing is I am not a 6/10 or above. I am at best, a 5/10, on my best hair day.

The truth is that I persisted anyway, and I tried dating, regardless with optimism. I was cheated on, hit physically and ended up comparing myself with guys that I was left for. Yes, the girls I dated would leave me for other guys all the time. I remember the first time it happened, I cried, and I asked her, "is it because he is more attractive than me?" The girl told me, "Oh, stop. I am not answering that question." I still managed to regain confidence every time, but the same thing always happened. One girl told me, "It is like cars. I won't wash or take care of an ugly car." Because she broke up with me and took the new handsome guy camping with her own money. I asked her why she was treating him so much better than me and she responded with that car comparison. I also do not have a boring personality. I am fun, pretty smart and have a successful path laid out.

It has just been really rough, and I am at the point of just giving up. Maybe it is the girls I am dating? I will mention that I have only ever dated above my league so maybe I should date down instead?