Search Results: getting love

Why do most people these days want to be single?

Divorce rates are climbing , relationships are ending left and right , most single girls and guys’ ’ I meet say they choose to be single and no longer want a relationship , some say the y never been in a relationship and...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Dating

Why do I feel uncomfy that my boyfriend likes me so much?

I've been obsessed with him and I have shown the same effort throughout. I thought his beginning energy was what i was getting but now I can tell he is down bad for me. Why am I feeling weird gross and anxious being given...

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Was she being friendly the whole time or did she change her mind about me?

A couple of weeks ago, I met a girl at a conference. I followed her on Instagram and we kept talking. She’s Hispanic, I’m Black. She kept saying flirty things to me about how she loves dark chocolate men like me, joking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Am I asking too much?

I got upset earlier about a job rejection. I’ve been getting a lot of rejections in my job hunt and it just triggered me so I was very upset. My boyfriend did comfort me in the beginning but I just kept crying. I couldn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Would you marry someone who was terminally ill?

Hey Guys and Gals, I met someone (M75) a few months ago who was so pleased to be getting married. He'd never been married before and was beyond smitten with his bride-to-be (F65, mom of two), never had kids, and had...

DishLady

Influencer Age: 52

Feeling much at peace but also confused/conflicted after initiating breakup with toxic/ unhealthy partner?

I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months over the level of unhealthiness and gaslighting taking place. My boyfriend still says im mistaken about lot of stuff and we should take a break instead of breaking up. My anxiety...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

I need him to miss me how do I go about this?

4 year relationship. I want get into it but there are circumstances and situations that make it hard for him to be totally committed to me. I know he loves ne and I'm the best woman for him he's ever had in his life and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies: Would you be okay with a man getting you an engagement ring that he thinks would look good on you regardless of your taste in rings?

I'm not even in a relationship, let alone thinking of proposing yet, but I've always contemplated this. I've always felt like a ring should be symbolic of my love for a girl. So if I like a ring's aesthetic and think...

HawkPerception

Master Age: 32

I'm not even in a relationship, let alone thinking of proposing yet, but I've always contemplated this. I've always felt like a ring should be symbolic of my love for a girl. So if

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Education & Career

What about your job keeps you there?

For me, I love the people I work with. They're so open and not afraid to say what's on their mind. Yet, also compassionate; not only about the job they do but also towards others. I can crack jokes (even the more dark...

Benjiman19

Xper 6 Age: 23

If I'm engaged, why does my ex boyfriend still tries contacting me?

I believe if someone keeps blocking an ex, they've made it crystal clear the ex isn't ever welcome back in their lives, esp if the break-up was under bad terms and they were a legitimate horrible person. That's a...

Vesuvius87

Influencer Age: 39

Is it possible for my girlfriend to ONLY be attracted to me?

My girlfriend claims to literally only be attracted to me. She doesn't even find celebrities or random people in public attractive. She only fantasizes about me and no one else when masturbating. This would ordinarily be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did I dreamed about my first love?

I met my first love when I was 17 and its my ever heartbreak cuz he's not into me. We used to be friends we always talk until he ghosted me now Im 27 years old and I dreamed about him Im not inlove with him anymore but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did he break no contact just for attention?

I was involved with a man a few months ago who plays drums in a band, he’s pretty good and well known in our town and getting more popular in the state and playing lots of shows etc. We’ve been friends since high school,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you ever take the blame for a spouse for a crime that could land them in prison for years?

Preemptive this did not happen to me. It happened to someone in my home town. A lady got drunk and chose to go driving. Some kind of emergency. She wrecked, killing the other driver. It was 3 blocks from her husband's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Do you see a future with a guy who is pushy?

I'm talking about love bombing, pet names, asking for pics, suffocating and controlling behaviour etc... especially since you've only been getting to know each other for a little over a week? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

luvstoned4him

Master Age: 35

I'm talking about love bombing, pet names, asking for pics, suffocating and controlling behaviour etc... especially since you've only been getting to know each other for a little over

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I thought he liked me, now I'm confused. Possibly just an ego stroke? Help please?

For the last 3 months, I've been getting to know & like my co-worker. We are both in the same position, but work in different locations. We have met in person before, briefly. As we work together quite closely, we have...

SomewhereElse

Xper 6 Age: 39

In your opinion why would a guy be genuinely mean/rude?

I’m talking to a guy and he says rude things like making fun of my weight, skin color, and height he even compares me to not so pretty people on tv but at the same time he’ll make fun of himself saying like “well I’m...

TellMe_Whyy

Xper 1 Age: 24

Getting over a toxic relationship you didn’t want to leave?

I finally broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months after months of what I’d now actually accept was emotional abuse. My boyfriend even if he doesn’t want to accept it, manipulated me, disrespected and didn’t value me, tried...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22