Search Results: how often do you think about a girl

This is a topic that gauged my interest as of late. I feel like this is a thing that should be addressed more often. I have heard from many now that they feel expected by society to look a certain way because of the entertainment industry. A look, that perhaps 1% of the population has, and most of the time, is not achieved in a way that's healthy, or natural. This eventually leads to eating disorders and what not, in many women.

I think men have an easier time pushing away these insecurities for whatever reason that may be. Even though on occasion I feel like people expect me to have a body like Chris Hemsworth when I take my shirt off at the beach, but in a minute or two I forget all about it and enjoy the ocean. But I feel like women have a harder time letting go of these thoughts and obsess over them even, which may or may not be due to biological reasons.

I wanted to make this poll just to kind of see where your thoughts lie regarding this topic, and whether it really is as widespread as some sources claim it to be.

Please be honest about your answer, as it might help other girls out there to know that they are not as alone as they thought in this matter.

Also feel free to elaborate on any further feelings you'd want to share.

Some people have “ribbing” yet teasing attitudes towards other people particularly of opposite gender and/or people they are interested in. It’s like teasing your crush to show confidence and/or get them to open up their more “real” side. It can also be about testing people by playing hard to get to see if they can “handle you”.

Women often do this to men to as quasi shit test to see if they are smart ass enough to deal with their sassiness. Men do this to women as a sign of confidence and/or to give off a slight asshole vibe because they know many girls like that.

But I noticed this is more common in some parts of the country (and world) than others. Los Ángeles and New York City are notorious for this.

Personally I never liked it. Unless the girl hits the absolute right teasing chemistry and I’m in the mood to banter it’s doesn’t get me turned on. Different if I’ve already known her for a bit and we are already well acquainted. But if I’m interested I am not looking to play faux asshole just to create a jibe to be more interesting. Rather have a real conversation with maybe some practical joking about other things besides each other.

But I think some men and women always start out with joking and slightly hard to get attitude when they like someone. It also their way of avoiding being boring at all costs.

So did men do this in response to what women want or vice versa?