What is your definition of a bad boy/bad girl?

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This terms is used on this page so damn often...

For me personally, first of all a boy and a girl are little kids in my eyes and not grown up men and women. I already differ it here.

So for me a bad boy/ bad girl are immature teens or a grown up with the mind of a teen, definitely not the romanticized version from movies or fiction stories lol I'm talking about real life!

Mostly I have a picture of disrespectful person in my head, who i guess have their own problems, also anger issues probably and definitely use of drugs and alcohol.
The type of people you find hanging out at main stations, who are loud and look like homeless people, with baggy clothes and a cigarette or drink in their hand... who think they are so cool and confident, but are actually just pathetic if you ask me lol

So everytime I see a question regarding this topic and why every girl likes bad boys, I'm laughing really hard haha

ConspiracyTheorist · Accepted Answer

If it's like who is a bad ass dude or a bad ass chick I'd have to say someone like a UFC champion or even like volunteered to become a soldier to fight in whatever it is they believed in, or even just someone that followed they're dreams and achieved the level of success that they are happy with and a life that they are happy with and not all uppity holier then thou bs. I would even say a serial killer that made only child molesters his victims would be a bad ass in my eyes. I guess anybody that is courageous in situations where it was because of someone's bravery that lives where saved.

Now what i picture I guess when like females say they go the bad boy type is like a common criminal type of loser that has tattoos all over and talks like a tough guy because he has been locked up with societies rejects and probably treats her as 2nd because his drug addiction is 1st and she is probably a narcissistic broad anyway that can't love anybody but likes how he is rough and tells her what to do and man handles her in the bed and she will be unhappy in the end and he will be okay because he has dope whores still coming around every chance he can get... and for a bad girl well I think would be a chick that didn't just talk shit but her actions back it up but I don't know.

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

A bad boy is a guy who acts cool and appears to be smooth and bold, and he usually gets sex from a lot of girls but he lies to them and breaks their hearts. He may or may not be a criminal, and he may or may not have tattoos and smoke cigarettes. He probably has several illegitimate children, whether he knows about them or not.

Alternatively, a bad boy is someone like myself who is a moral law-abiding citizen but is mischievous and doesn't gaf. Not really traditional or a rule follower, but has his own strict code of ethics.

A bad girl is a young woman who is rebellious and lacks maturity and good judgement. She shops at Hot Topic, Spencer's, and Rue21. She has piecings and tattoos and wears a lot of makeup. She may possibly be a cheerleader. She either smokes weed or likes to get drunk or both. She goes clubbing frequently. She listens to a lot a shitty music. And she loves giving blowjobs.

Alternatively, a bad girl is a sweet girl who makes a good girlfriend or wife. She is classy and reserved in her public life, but very flirty and affectionate when at home, and she likes to make dirty jokes and slap her man's ass and flash her boobs. She also loves giving blowjobs.

KelleyNice · Accepted Answer

Since it is not a common term, I don't have a definition for a bad girl. However, bad boy vs. nice guy is common usage.

Using that terminology nice guys are not athletic, or very good looking. Nor do they have much money. They must invest a lot of time, effort and money to get a girl. Therefore, if they find a girl, she is like a diamond. She is precious so he will treat her right and do anything to keep her.

A bad boy is athletic, smart, exceptionally good looking and may have money. Even as young children, girls have always been easy for bad boys. That is, they are popular and they are the boys that girls like. From the time they are in their teens, girls quickly drop their panties for bad boys. Since, for them, girls are so easy and can be replaced with very little effort girls are like sand; they have very little value. Therefore, the bad boys will find them, feed them, fuck them, and move on to the next pretty girl.

When that happens, the girl will cry and say, "I want a nice guy." Of course, she doesn't want a nice guy. Instead she wants a hot guy (bad boy) that will treat them like a nice guy would and that seldom happens. So it is not long before she is chasing after another bad boy that, like the last one. fucked her and moved on to the next girl.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Bad boy sounds like some guy who’s soon to do submissive shit for some girl

What is your definition of a bad boy/bad girl?

Badass sounds like some “cool” rebellious dude

I like genuinely good guys... not as immature as boys and not as bad as asses lmao... Not to be confused with “nice” guys

BlueScorpio · Answer

Always thought bad boy/girl was teens or young adults who rebel against the status quo, don't conform to what others do or say in society, and just want to be their own person. They don't like authority or rules, want to be seen as edgy/unique than everyone else. They want to stand out in the world and amoung peers. They are fun and carefree and usually the most misunderstood one by judgy people. They tend to help the uptight person break out their shell and experience life for the forst time ever. But that's usually how Hollywood depicts them in movies, if not then they are anarchists that want to burn the whole world down lol

Googlemyahoo · Answer

In HS my friend dated a girl from another school who was our age & already had a kid. Went out one night & he was supposed to come but got in trouble so it was one other guy driving , his girlfriend and me. I was in the back we stopped at a store to get some smokes and while the driver went in she hopped in back seat with me.

Very flirty and talkative and basically said why don’t we just go back to her apartment. I was like what about your boyfriend she laughed and shrugged. She was very good looking. However being a loyal person I declined she called me gay and loser lol. I told her boyfriend the next day & he kicked her to the curb.

Bad Girl

yucel_eden · Answer

There’s differrnt types of bad boys or girls.

There’s the ones you described, who think they are cool, they think they are all that with issues of their own, or at home.

However, to me at my age the definition of a bad man or women is different.

To me a bad can be put into a category of someone who does only things for himself and does not care about others in any way or shape or form. Someone who stabs others in the back.

However, a bad person can also be one who does things without caring what others think without any intention of hurting or offending others. That’s me or my girlfriend for example. We are slightly bad in that way. Like we let each other know we care each other and we support each other, but no way in hell will we risk ourselves for each other. That’s my definition of bad. I’m also good with it.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Bad boy to me is someone who will do naughty 😈 things to his woman… vice versa with a bad girl.
Also, someone who parties a lot, smokes, drinks, with the in cool crowd who causes public disturbance and are rowdy and loud. That will get the attention of the cops…

There’s a huge difference with the just evil/vile people who have no regard for other humans or other forms of life in general.

ohsheeT · Answer

I don't know about the definition of a bad girl but all the bad boys that I know they are basically or abused in many ways growing up they were belittled beat up talk down to their mother was mean to them control them bad boys do not like their mothers they hate their mothers that's the reason why they hate the girls that they're with that's the reason why they beat up the girls they're with they get in a lot of fights because they used to get picked out a lot growing up they're just in trouble all the time because they don't don't like people telling them what to do because people used to tell them what to do when they were younger they hate themselves they hate their mom they hate the world and then every time they do something stupid their name gets put out there so they think they're even b a d d e r

Guardian45 · Answer

I agree with you, but I believe people who are attracted to these types of a bad boy/bad girl, somehow believe that they're NOT so bad, or that the can CHANGE them. Science and reality have demonstrated over and over again, you CANNOT CHANGE someone's personality after 6yo. Furthermore, people ONLY change if THEY CHOOSE to!

It's a STOOPID fantasy, falling for, wanting or pursuing a bad boy/bad girl, which will ONLY lead to disappointment and heartache!

mandyfire98 · Answer

Bad boys at least the ones I've been involved with in the past, aren't criminals, they are just guys who are louder than other guys, more opinionated, they're more than likely fuck boys and players. They're more than likely to be a bit wilder and take charge more and are rough in bed. They're definitely cocky and mostly assholes.

anon1903 · Answer

I think the movie version of bad kids is somewhat true. I was obsessed during my teens years in becoming a part of the bad group. What movies fail to show are consequences. The hot girl who smokes is never shown with cancer, boy fucking new girls on daily basis never has STDs... Teen fiction would be realistic fiction and less people would waste their time on baddies, if they did that.

Guy13 · Answer

Bingo... same exact image and with prison time whether that is true or not... It is not "hot"... especially on the women !!!

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

They're into drugs and alcohol and wild depraved stuff. They're no good and make crappy parents if they even decide to try to be there for their kids. Plus they sleep around a lot. Inside they're very ugly.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

The Bad Girl in Training thinks having sex like men means bragging, being detached, and not being discerning

Miladin · Answer

I know a few bad boys - cocky, arrogant, cynical, vulgar, a bit aggressive, loud, dumb. "Strangely" they were all quite popular among younger women.

humanearth · Answer

Drug user that robs the liquor store for 20 bucks to get their drug fix

AsaKyo · Answer

Some loser who ruins your life in the long-term

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Just in general a rude and bad human being. Has no respect for anyone, mean, selfish and a overall a p. o. s of a person.

Anonymous · Answer

I gave up on labeling long time ago. It's subjective. Everyone calls bad anything and anyone that inconveniences them.

Nazgol · Answer

The ones that are Heartbreakers, players, sex addicts , users, thrill seekers , uncommitted

Zolly99999 · Answer

Does drugs, drinks , is a criminal , no respect for authority..

Jouth · Answer

this

fireforeffect · Answer

Someone with no morals. Someone that Only thinks about him or her self.

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