Search Results: ask her out now or wait

Doesn’t seem to be as interested as I thought?

Basically I’ve known this girl for some time now. Met back in college went out a few times, was intimate once, and actually tried to somewhat pursue each other. However, she transferred sophomore year as she wanted to go...

Turtlewax1994

Xper 6 Age: 32

Boyfriend misses me, but blocks me?

Hello, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for awhile now and we are each others first boyfriend/girlfriend. Recently he asked to be on a break to figure out his life. He doesn't know when the break will be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When would it be appropriate to tell a girl you're really starting to like them and ask them about what they want?

I've been on a few dates with a really nice girl and it is clearly going well since she's taken as many chances as possible to grab me and hug me. We've held hands and she tells me she's so happy with genuine passion....

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don’t know if I should message him?

The guy I’m talking to has been disappearing on and off, happened twice. When i asked him last time he said it was work and family and then we talked normally but now he is gone again, been 4 days today and I don’t know...

Elena7

Xper 2 Age: 28

Is it a red flag when your boyfriend won't text you past 7 pm on vacation?

He is visiting a different state (Florida) and his last text is usually around 7 pm. He finally called me last night, which was his first night of calling me since being there 3 days. He was at the beach at 11 pm when he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I change my post, or can I ask him to unfollow me?

A guy randomly dmed me on Instagram asking to speak to me about a concern he had. We’re just acquaintances and had little interactions in person, so I didn’t feel comfortable meeting up. He then offered to email me about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to handle friends that think they are being used?

So I met this really cool woman a couple weeks back through my friends. While her and I are slowly building something, where that goes is TBD. In the process, She's been wanting to hang out in a group setting. I have been...

JRise25

Xper 6 Age: 38

I'm so confused and I have no idea what my ex wants from me. Please help me understand should I move on?

So I have formed a big connection with this one guy. We clicked right away and started having a more intimate reletionship 2 weeks into knowing each other. Now I do agree that the both of us moved onto a reletionship...

Tkova56

Xper 3 Age: 23

I’m confused, why are my crush doing this to me?

I have a crush on this guy for three years and it was all fine until he figured out like two weeks ago… I don't know who told him or that he guessed it by himself but now it’s a mess. Like three days ago my friend asked...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend says he wants to wait to have a child until the time is right but he was so careless with his ex?

Okay.. so long story short my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. He has one child with an ex already. Now right before we got together he was intimate with a different one of his ex’s and was not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Does my online friend still care about me?

My friend (female) and I used to talk a lot (almost every day). While I've initiated most of our conversations, she has, in a few times, initiated them and even asked to do stuff together (online). And I've made it clear...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

How do you handle asshole neighbors?

I live in the suburbs now. I'm originally from a bad inner city neighborhood, bit live in a low violence good neighborhood now. The one thing I noticed right off the bat, are these guys who got money, got too much to say....

blissinanarchy1

Xper 7 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Girl reaches out to me after rejecting me?

Hi, this lovely girl co worker who I developed strong feelings for months ago reached out to me again. I had previously asked her out and she rejected me because she had a boyfriend and I accepted this of course even...

Seanken199

Xper 2 Age: 28

How to pursue a woman and know if she is not just being friendly?

I still haven't figured the dating scene out with women. One minute I think I do, other times I don't. Some folks might think I am trolling, but I am not because I haven't found a way to figure this out. One recent piece...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I inquire?

So me and this guy have been dating for almost 2 months. He asked me to be his girlfriend like 5 times. Now fast forward and we barely talk now that I am. We were texting yesterday and when I asked when he would want to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend keeps changing his mind about starting a family?

i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years for the past 3 or 4 months he has been bringing up starting a family and having a child together. The first time he brought up having a child with me he came in me the same night...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is she losing interest, or am I overthinking this?

So I have been seeing my girlfriend of 9 months and everything has been great so far. We live in different cities and we usually get to see one another a couple of times a week. Thing is, she has become a little bit...

Marc56

Xper 1 Age: 33

Why do these situations with guys happen a lot?

i think i might have terrible luck because of years of MANY guys staring, smiling, and etc at me but nobody making a move, yesterday was the first day a guy was about to make a move on me. he kept smiling at me but my...

Anonymous

(18-24)