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A fun-loving & personable woman who enjoys laughter & playful banter seeking a connection. With an insightful & compassionate nature (hence career) as a skilled listener I prefer communication to resolve issues not drama or games.

Traveled, across Canada for one, on Match to meet someone outside XX region.

Of recent European ancestry was raised on 'old school' values; family is important & so is physical affection (e. g., touch). Have a satire & dry wit sense of humour. Am not afraid of hard work or getting dirty, even done home renos

A curious intellectual, enjoy learning or trying new things, I have many interests. With a love of the outdoors swimming, hiking, & photography are some. And while I won't pass up an adventure am as content to curl up on a couch with a good book or engaging conversation.

Driven, with an accomplished medical career, I still always make time for others. Financially independent & self-assured = no social media & am not materialistic… I'd be far more impressed if you volunteer than by a BMW.

I’ve been dating a guy a few months, seeing each other every 2nd day, and be called me daily. We hung out and had a great time and I know he was very into me.

he’s due to go away to another country tomorrow for a month with work. I last saw him 4 days ago, we hung out, he told me he will miss me and we spoke about our future etc.

Here’s where I think the problem is. I left my phone at his, when I went to collect it everything was fine. He messaged me later that night, saying he wishes I was beside him and that he can’t wait to see me the next night. Anyways, when I got my phone back, I noticed that I had received messages from guys I was friends with telling me I looked good etc. I had uploaded a new profile pic, and they had pmd me. Even though my phone was locked, the messages pop up briefly.

he didn’t message the day after, and in 4 days he has sent me 1 message (usually he would call and text daily). I sent him a couple of messages asking was everything ok as he was quite (read it but didn’t reply) sent him a follow up one asking if we were still going out that night (silence). I was wanting to meet up with him and find out did he see the messages from the guys who pmd me and reassure him.

I was with my friend yesterday, and was showing her the messages. She unfollowed him and unfriended him on everything saying he’s a user etc. I’m so pissed off with her. I then sent him a friend and follow request which he didn’t accept, and sent him a further message (as we are no longer friends, I can’t see if he read them).

I really really like and respect this guy, and I only have eyes for him. I’ve sent him 4 messages in total which he didn’t respond to (the last one wishing him a good trip and if we could speak). The whole thing is a misunderstanding

Might I add, he hasn’t blocked me off anything when I sent those messages.

the questing is, what will I do? And will be back in touch? What do I do to make it right again?