How can I celebrate Christmas alone depresed?

[Sugar100]

Im 25 and never have spent holidays with a guy. No one wants let me experience first time what it’s like go to bfs families house Thanksgiving and Christmas, then he can go to my families house next day. I’m at point settled down & empty & desire have a baby next year. I even see teenagers let girlfriend meet his parents. I’m 25 & have no experience. When I was young guys I liked rejected me. Only guy I dated as guy that finally liked me back but we r dating 2 years and I don’t meet parents. He don’t let me meet them yet he talks of them 24/7. I can’t use dating app right now to find random guy as the app isn’t letting me install it. So having technical issues & stuck. I deserve meet bfs family cuz he’s the guy I love, any other random new guy I won’t love. But he would maybe let me meet his family even tho it wouldn’t be a serious relationship as I wouldn’t love him. All my family spend holidays at boyfriend or gfs parents house. So I’m alone. I don’t want holiday with FRIENDS I want it with a MAN. Never had a man sit proud next to me facing my family not scared or coward.

[Summeroflove]

You need a therapist and enjoy it with family. As I said many times before. If you’re not happy with your current boyfriend. Then you need to break up.

Many people will want to spend holidays with family. So. It might take time as well as making sure everyone’s comfortable around him too.

[Sugar100]

I don’t need therapy. My family don’t need bring boyfriend or girlfriend to holdiays to be happy, y they can’t NOT bring boyfriend and leave celebrate it ALONE? Y they can’t learn be happy alone without bringing a partner to holiday with family? They r the ones that need therapy learn celebrate alone and not bring their girlfriend or boyfriend.

[Summeroflove]

Okay. You asked for my opinion….. If you’re struggling mentally maybe you do. You ask this question so many times. Then get upset when people answer.

Good grief.

[Anonymous]

finding a guy that will turn into your boyfriend before Thanksgiving/Christmas, and then getting married (i presume) and having a baby (all while being financially set) all next year is a very unrealistic goal...

i'd say just be happy where you're at right now. that's all you can do right now and it's the most realistic.

[Opinion Owner]

your English is a little bit hard to read. if you have been dating this guy for 2 years and you still haven't met his parents or spend holidays with him then there is something seriously wrong with that relationship.

[Sugar100]

Can’t even find a random new guy that will race to let me meet his parents either: I’m stuck.

[Sugar100]

Either way I’m stuck

[NotTacocaT6969]

The solution is literally to spend the holiday with friends or family.


The point is to not be lonely and enjoy the holiday.


You can do that without a boyfriend.


Don’t force your holidays to suck just because they could be better.

[Sugar100]

INDONT HAVE FAMILY didn't U READ? Only family I have is my mom, dad moved to Mexico!!! Brotehr and wife are TOXIC ! Brotehr doesn’t see or talk to me in 3 years. Wife’s family spend holidays with all her sisters asn they all bring their bfs to the holiday party! I will not be there as only girl with boyfriend !!! I told u I crave experience first time what it’s like spend it with a guy, so I won’t sit there staring at the girls showing happiness celebrating with a guy living my dream.

[Sugar100]

I don’t have family didn’t u read what I wrote?

[NotTacocaT6969]

That’s why I said friends or family.

Do you have no friends?

[Sugar100]

No since I was little girls treat me bad even girls in my family r all so jealous envy me that they have also treated me bad n just want copy me. I’m urging so bad experience holdiays wtih a man that I don’t want be with friends. I’m not single I don’t want single friends holiday I want holidays with a man. I won’t be 26-30 spending holidays alone I need be with a man finally

[Sugar100]

I just would need tell a new guy we will break up if we aren’t meeting parents, I guess that’s what girls do to meet parents. Then swap out guy for another new guy til he says yes.

[Sugar100]

No guy wants be proud sit next to me and face my family it’s just my mom lol he won’t die. I don't know y men run away from meeting family. I need a man sit next to me holiday dinner happy celebrating with each others family as all girls do with bfs

[NotTacocaT6969]

Being desperate and obsessive like that will only make things worse.

Spending a holiday alone is WAY better than what happens if you end up with the wrong people on thanksgiving…it can be a horror show.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/HX55AzGku5Y

If you are going to celebrate Christmas alone depressed why celebrate it at all, celebrate Festivus instead. Festivus For The Rest Of Us.

[art84]

Spend it with family. I don't have a girlfriend and been rejected in my 20's. Doesn't bother me as I have my nephews, nieces and mom and dad and dog. Nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend unless you feel like you need a man in your life to make you happy.

[Sugar100]

INDONT HAVE FAMILY didn't U READ? Only family I have is my mom, dad moved to Mexico!!! Brotehr and wife are TOXIC ! Brotehr doesn’t see or talk to me in 3 years. Wife’s family spend holidays with all her sisters asn they all bring their bfs to the holiday party! I will not be there as only girl with boyfriend !!! I told u I crave experience first time what it’s like spend it with a guy, so I won’t sit there staring at the girls showing happiness celebrating with a guy living my dream.

[art84]

Sorry for not reading. I don't know what to say.

[Sugar100]

I guess if I meet a new guy I would need say we can’t continue date if I don’t meet ur parents n we need break up. I guess that’s secret to how girls get men to meet parents. But a new guy I wudnt love or be attracted to at all

[art84]

Do you need to meet his parents? Like if you were my girlfriend I wouldn't introduce you to my family till we were boyfriend/girlfriend.

[Sugar100]

We r boyfriend girlfriend we r dating 2 years!!!

[Sugar100]

I don’t get wut u r saying , if I’m ur girlfriend but I don’t meet parents til we r boyfriend girlfriend? U aren’t making sense

[art84]

Like if we were just dating and not officially boyfriend/girlfriend.

[Sugar100]

We’ll we r dating 2 years that’s already like offical that’s super long time dating as boyfriend girlfriend

[Sugar100]

Do we need have baby to finally be able meet his family be apart of his family?

[art84]

2 years is good for meeting his family. You don't need a baby unless that's the only way he would present you to his parents.

[glennos89]

Thrust me, spending Christmas with someone's parents ain't that great to look forward to thrust me. But spending it with a boyfriend or girlfriend is nice on the other hand

[Andres77]

Are you pregnant? Or your thinking about having a baby with this guy?

[eagle1951]

just like me an others do it, quit feeling sorry for yourself, suck it up and deal with it.

i have for 5 years alone without my wife, and i'm 71 try that

[gary777]

Im in the same boat. loose snowmen boxers! (our secret!)

[legalboxers]

*hugs* Im sorry