Search Results: end to a first date

How do I respond to this?

This text came from a guy I had talked to for a little while. He was actually a really nice person and I did think highly of him. We had a lot in common and talked on the phone for hours. He took me on one date and then I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Did our first date went well?

Here are some details which are positives : • The date should have lasted 1h because she had a conference afterwards, but in the end she never went and the date lasted 3 hours • We looked each other in the eyes the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are these normal 1st & 2nd date behaviours?

So I matched with a guy on hinge a few weeks ago. He’s 29, I’m 24. I’ve gone on 2 dates with him. The first one was dinner at a sushi restaurant followed by ice cream & a game of pool at a nearby pub. It was cold that...

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

Flirting

Have I blown it? Feeling very guilty?

This guy (30M) and I (30F) have been texting nonstop for 3 weeks straight. Last week we went on 2 dates, 5+ hours each, lots of hand holding, laughing, good conversation, joking about our “future houses/holidays/pets” etc...

Gemini90

Xper 1 Age: 34

Family & Friends

It’s been over 10 years but she is still inside my head. Should I forgive her in order to move on?

Long story made short, I was adopted by an older couple when I turned 11. I was very handsome as a kid. All the girls would hit on me and tell me how cute I was. “You’re going to be a heart breaker when you grow up.”...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

We dated three times, we planned a fourth date, but it seems like she's ghosting me. any advice?

I know the definition of a date varies from one person to another, we had coffee on Thursday, on Friday we went out for dinner, on Sunday she called me to go out for coffee again. We had a quick chat on Tuesday, when we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Have I messed this up - I’m feeling guilty :(?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Did I mess this up - feeling really guilty :(?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is it wise to give up on a guy you like for some time after one date?

My friend gave up on a guy after first date. She was crushing on him long before they became friends. after they became friends they got closer after few months. They make out two times. They looked so sweet together. But...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Do guys realise how much pain they’ve caused us after the relationship has ended?

We were childhood sweethearts i was 17 and he was 20 when we started dating. We were in so so much love he did so many things for me would take me out on dates, would buy me flowers randomly and just be there for me. No...

notnamingmyself

Xper 2 Age: 24

Dating

Should I text or not?

I knew this guy from dating app and we had an amazing date. We've talked about going to a concert together, but the plan had not been decided. Yet, out of nowhere, he bought me a ticket. I told him I would pay him back...

pandamarda

Xper 3 Age: 33

Dating

Was he wasting my time purposely or did he genuinely want a relationship?

I met this guy online a handful of years ago, and I didn’t like him at first, but he liked me a lot. We lived 3 hours away from each other, and I asked him to meet with me at a public area if he could. He said yes, but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Am I the asshole for sleeping with two guys on the same team?

I don’t go to this university, but there is a small school 500-600 students) in a nearby town. I 26 F, have made several friends there, mostly guys. One in particular 25M on the basketball team took interest in me and we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, Long distance relationship advice?

How do you suppose I'd ever be able to date or hang out with this Irish counselor I met at this sleepaway camp I go to every summer for adults with disabilities? They get their counselors from England, Ireland, Scotland,...

erseyller

Xper 1 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Guys advice please? Am I missing something?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really really well but I didn’t sleep with him as wernt officially dating, we spoke for months after but I ended up going travelling& when I got back he had a girlfriend, I ended up in a 3 year relationship but then we both somehow ended up single at the same time, he contacted me (as must have seen I deleted all photos of ex) we went on a date and the date was just amazing I can’t explain the butterfly feeling he gives me. Still didn’t sleep with him as I’m old fashioned and we weren’t exclusive.. anyways after the date I got back with my ex and we didn’t speak. A year later I’m single & he gets in touch asking if I’m okay and randomly turned up at my house with flowers to cheer me up. we end up talking for a few weeks and he’s asking me why I never make effort to talk to him and why he’s always chasing me (he’s a basketball player so I’m kind of wary that he’s talking to loads of other girls & I’m a bit shy I’m nowhere near as hot) by the way we still haven’t had sex but just having a really nice connection. Again he goes radio Silent on me.. so fast forward a few months and he rings me drunk saying I’m the only person he’s ever loved and he’s so nervous around me etc.. I thought I would make more effort with him so I start finally messaging first and stuff and we plan to have a night away and we talk about having sex & it gets quiet passionate. then again he goes radio silent. so a month goes by & after hearing nothing from him he pops up merry Christmas I love you & one day your going to be my wife which is random as hell since he practically ghosted me twice this year? Then after talking every night on the phone he’s gone silent again? am I reading this all wrong does he even like me or what? or am I just not making enough effort? & no he doesn’t have a wife or a girlfriend I know his family

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Dating

Girls, Ladies, what advice would you give a guy on how to approach women he finds interesting enough to want to possibly date?

Long story short, I'm behind getting into the dating scene. Severe depression played a big part in making middle school and high school (save once) impossible to try to date and my attempts in college always ended with...

UmbrusNightshade

Xper 5 Age: 40

Girl's Behavior

Modern day Feminists vision of equality: Women get the authority of elite figures, the privileges of women, and the accountability of children.

I understand a lot of goals for modern women to help them be respected more in society or be understood more and such or have more oppurtinities, but the above statement I will explain. I think there is social issues that...

williambolt447

Xper 2 Age: 25

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Guy's Behavior

I’m afraid to date a man I genuinely like a lot because he has kids. Any advice or opinions?

I used to be the kind of girl who believed in instant connection because I had fallen in love at first sight when I was 19 years old with a man who ended up playing me before I had even turned 21. That short relationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Is this a valid punishment for cheating?

So I dated my ex for 9 years and got engaged for 3 years, so my best friend from highschool has always been up my butt from the beginning and we had a couple flirts here and there then last year something switched for me...

Beccaasaar

Xper 5 Age: 27

Relationships

How am I so lucky with my girlfriend?

As recently as last night, she gave me a call (lasted 15 mins and I set up a date for tomorrow, she clearly wants to seem asap), and she told me "You are the best thing that has ever happened to me. No one has ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)