Search Results: notice first

Why do women that reject a guy pay attention to the guy more after the rejection?

Long story short, I asked a girl out on a date, she said she’ll let me know because she was working a lot but she was down….. but she never did (it’s been almost two weeks). We had a good conversation before, and we had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to support a friend who is about to see some devastating news?

I woke up to an engagement notice -- usually a good thing -- and realized that it was a mass message sent to everyone in my (sort of broad) social network. The... female in question was a former client who started dating...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Boyfriend says I'm so girly... is that a bad thing?

He says I'm girly as if I'm too girly.. like is a bad thing. But i football and motocross. I like to ride and work on motorcycles. I haven't met any females who like that. Boyfriend doesn't even like football. He said I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I ask the girl I’ve been 3 dates with why she’s been acting more distant recently?

I know this girl from work, and started going on dates a month and a half ago. After the first date I confessed my feelings for her and she said she felt the same. Before the third date she would show interest through...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to stop sabotaging relationships of any kind?

Whenever I sense someone is getting too close to me, I shut down and distance myself because I don't want to give them a false hope we can be something more. It doesn't apply only to romantic relationships but to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I being slow faded after the 3rd date?

Known this girl for around 2 months, but have only been dating for a month. After the first date we confessed our feelings for each other, so we’ve had some obvious interest in each other for a while. Should mention she...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, What's the very first thing you notice about a gentleman you admire?

Gals, what's the very first thing you notice about a gentleman you admire?

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Guys, What's the very first thing you notice about a lady you admire?

Guys, what's the very first thing you notice about a lady you admire?

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Was it a bad idea to start messing around with my co worker?

I started dealing with this guy at work. We work in different departments. We talk, interact, flirt etc but to me it just seems like he likes the attention I give him. It seems as if I make his work day go by faster but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend doesn’t like my weight loss and prefers me chubby. What do I do at this situation?

Okay so I was a little chubby when I met my boyfriend at mutual friend’s barbecue four years ago. I was 160lbs. We started to hit it off pretty well. We were friends for a year because he had just got out of a terrible...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girl goes home w/guy she just met on a date & gets murdered. Is common sense not so common in women?

Where is the common sense? Do women not have it? I'm noticing on this app, and outside of it, women make decisions that aren't logical at all. Just very basic stuff , it's like their brain only goes so far. For example,...

DreamLife7

Xper 7 Age: 29

Where is the common sense? Do women not have it? I'm noticing on this app, and outside of it, women make decisions that aren't logical at all. Just very basic stuff , it's like their

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Do you mind who messages first?

I've noticed that I tend to be the one who reaches out to my friends first. Sometimes I worry that I come off as desperate or annoying, and other times I worry that if I didn't message first I'd never hear from them...

Gochogirl

Xper 7 Age: 28

I’m so confused at this point?

My ex says there are still feelings there and hangs out with me without having sex, which we have had. Told me I can call him on his last break every night for work… I don’t rush it so I just don’t call him during the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is your opinion?

So there is a guy in my neighborhood that we rent the same apartment units. First, I noticed that whenever his friends see me they would always tell me hi like even if i would be walking with my friends they would always...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is she into me or not? Is there a chance?

So I approached this girl I liked in college and introduced myself to both her and her friend. And from there, the second time I approached her she looked interested. I mean eye contact, smiles, and all that. I was happy....

Anonymous

(30-35)

My family planned a dinner without me now there asking me to come because someone canceled?

My family planned a Mother’s Day dinner without me they reserved a restaurant for themselves. yesterday my cousin said she wouldn’t be able to make it to the dinner and they asked me to come I told them no and that they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My sister is evil?

I try to forgive my older sister but I can’t. I’m 26 & my sister is 28, ever since we were young she would call me ugly & fat. At one point I lost a lot of weight & started dating but she would go after my ex’s, my first...

khb031498

Xper 4 Age: 28