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I’m in a relationship for 4 years now. My boyfriend and I have some incompatibilities like different interests, sex drive, and financial stability. The things I want to do, he doesn’t want to do which is also one of the causes why I feel bored. Or maybe I’m just bored and grown out of this relationship. There's not much wrong with my relationship, but sometimes I don’t feel like I want to be in a relationship. I want to date more people and see if there’s better out there. Is there any advice on what I should do because he’s a good guy, we get along, we even have a good time sometimes. I want to break up but then I also don’t. I don’t know what I should do anymore.

Pros:
- Very thoughtful towards my family and spends time with them, pays for them when going out
- Loves me, always checks up on me and takes care of me.
-We also have fun joking around and talking to each other
- Sometimes surprise me with snacks so I don't stress out too much in school
-Very good with kids and always trying to make me happy when I communicate my needs and
concerns

Cons:
-Doesn't have similar interests together (I like sightseeing, exercising, and going out, he likes staying home and spend time with fam)
-Doesn't have a stable career or any ambition
(Makes minimum wage and tells me he will find a better job but nothing changed after a few years,
I'm still in school trying to become a nurse)
-Incompatible sex drives (I get sex deprived bc we only have sex when he wants it and we don't do it as much)
- Doesn't prioritize me (last minute cancelled on my bday bc he doesn't want to do what I want to do and is tired that day)

Overall it's not a bad relationship. He's a very sweet guy but sometimes I don't feel like we're compatible and lately, I feel like im slowly falling out of love. Especially since he's not even trying to improve himself with a better career. But then at the same time I still have so much love for him and don't want to regret leaving him. We've been together for a couple years so I don't know. Is this relationship worth staying in or should I find someone more compatible?

So my boyfriend is having some work issues & today he made a comment if I can't wait 1-2 days for a response maybe I should walk away. He forgets I waited 2 months for him to get sorted earlier in the year - he's still not sorted out - with barely any communication from him.

See it's frustrating because he's trying to shoulder everything himself - though I am more than able to assist him (it's the way he grew up I think, his mum wasn't educated & dad died young so he had to "be an adult" before his time) - and because of this he's causing excessive strain to himself. Instead of asking for help or taking the help I am offering.

And today I made it clear I WANT to help you. And yet rethinking what he said earlier - about walk if can't wait 2 days for a response when I waited 2 months earlier - it's like would he actually appericate that help or would he just used it and when sort out leave / break up.

Or would it be better to just... walk away. I mean you can't force someone to accept your help and if they don't want it, what is there.