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uwu i got sent an offer from a college but i might stay to do A levels at my school i dont know yet so help me!

they are making me choose by the 19th and sure i could accept and then just change my mind but if i accept i want to accept BECAUSE IM COMMITTED TO IT!!! YEAH!!!

im having a meltdown

none of the "its ur choice at the end of the day" shit if i could make a choice I wouldn't BE ASKING

SO here's THE REASONS

Leave and go to SD:

• Strong academic programs
• Experienced teachers
• Small class sizesd
• Access to resources
• Extra-curricular activities
• More academic choices
• Increased independence
• Preparation for university
• Access to specialist facilities
• New experiences and opportunities
• 96% have been placed at their first choice uni
• A* – A Grades: 46.5% (5.6% above the national average)
• Mam wants me to go here

Stay in GIC

• Small year group = lots of focus from teachers
• Effectively guaranteed to be able to be a prefect
• Guaranteed to be able to chair the eco council
• Continuing welsh education
• LOTS of very good trips ill almost definitely be able to go on
• Fun days
• Well being days
• Connecting with the year above
• Keep working on my projects into the next year
• Teachers are great references
• The new building
• Likely won’t make many friends in SD
• I have no clue what life is like for lgbt students there since its a catholic school
• One sixth former in GIC has gotten an offer from oxford
• From what I’ve heard most of the sixth formers are getting into 1st choice russelgroup unis

A lady invited my older neighbor to a performance but she only had one ticket. She apologized several times she only had one ticket - her friend got her one- that she’d like to buy him one and she doesn’t even have money for jerked for one. (I guess they are expensive tickets!)

After lunch she told him to not forget about the performance. He asked where it was but she was in a hurry to go to work so she couldn’t respond. (She really was in a real hurry due to the fact she had let herself stay over time when he should have been gone)

So now bc it was confusing, he is not sure if he should ask her about it or let her mention it.

They meet regularly for lunch once a week, I go along sometimes bc he is slightly autistic as is she & between them there is some difficulty expressing themselves or understanding the situation. (Both very high functioning)

She was exceptionally friendly today (I witnessed it she was super sweet and complimentary. She’s usually more reserved tho always kid and always ends with a hug at her request) but he’s not sure if she was just happy to get the ticket and didn’t realize who she was telling it if she may want him to go with her and doesn’t want to make her feel awkward...

Should he ask her about it or just let her bring it up again,

She wrote him a very nice note tonight & he wrote a lovely note back. I told him don’t ruin the note he wrote back let it settle but I’m not sure if he should ask her tomorrow or not. It’s for Saturday.

Thanks!