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Search Results: trying too hard
Why would my coworker jokingly say this?
I walked into work today and I forgot my water. My coworker who’s older and sometimes lovingly gives me a hard time but sometimes I think she’s serious lol. Today she was like “there’s water in the fridge or are you too...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it pyscho if I ask if he’s seeing other women?
I’m seeing this guy it’s been 2 months. He always gets really possessive over me and says he thinks I’m speaking to other guys which I’m not. But I always think people act like this when they have something to hide. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is college just not for me or im not trying hard enough?
I used to go to community college. I took a break since the pandemic began. Know with the pandemic settling down i think i should return to college. Because of covid my job gives me as many hours as i want so i saved up...
Anonymous
(30-35) My top 10 favorite presidents
Keeping in mind that these are my takes and that I may value some things over others and that those things I value I might not agree with given the time period. This is purely based off of things I value/importance at the...
Messianic_Monk
Xper 5 Age: 28 Would you go in public toilets if you knew the opposite sex was doing work in there?
When I ask this question I mean pacifically people like cleaners, plumber etc. I'm in no way trying to bring up the whole trans toilet stuff into this before anyone tries making it a political thing. I ask this because I...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Is he gay or in to me?
I've been friends with this guy at work for a really long time. He's really nice and friendly towards me but recently he's been trying wayyy to hard with me. He used to have a girlfriend who was also my friend but she...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Why is anger issues glorified?
This question may sound stupid and you may think it isn't but what you may not realize is people who are short tempered specially bosses are more respected. I have some sort of a trauma that actually gives me PTSD when...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I not fall any deeper?
So there's this guy. He keeps flirting with me and if I ask him why he does that, he just would tell me to chill like the other girl friends that we have. There are times when I try to flirt back (but I really suck at it...
Anonymous
(30-35) The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.
I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...
SimonClass
Xper 2 Age: 28 Why do I feel as though my parents are an obstacle to my life right now? Why am I too afraid to stand up to them and go on my own without them?
My parents encourage me to just keep going with college all because I’m getting good grades and it makes them “proud” or whatever. Nevermind the horrendous effect it has on my mental health and my happiness. But it’s easy...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 My ex seen me on a dating site he was on and deleted his profile and his Instagram after the break up, why?
My ex broke up with me after our first small fight. He broke up with me through a voice memo and came to get his things. No talking. I was okay until I seen him on a dating site 4 days later and i was just devastated. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys who like skinny girls, how skinny is skinny enough for you and how skinny is too much?
I'm naturally skinny and no diet works, after being fed up with doctor visits and elders advices I gave up and now on a normal diet. I am brown, 63 inch, 36 kg, 30-22-31 figure, 25 underbust (26D or 30AA depending on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it safe too assume the date is off? ?
I’m supposed to go on a date Sunday. My sister and his sister set us up and thought it would be good for us to get to know each other. I started talking to this guy which started last weekend. He asked me out but wanted...
Anonymous
(30-35) I blocked my boyfriend, did I do it right? why did he do that to me?
He asked me out first, and I wasn't ready.. but the nice behavior of him melts my heart and I was fine being with him... he was so caring and also obsessed with me that I found it so unreal... it was all perfect.. until...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do men deliberately date less attractive women because they think they don't have to try as hard?
I was dating this guy, and I forget what brought it up, but right in front of said he doesn't date 9s or 10s. He said they are too difficult. Did he mean, he doesn't like putting any effort in and girls, he thinks are...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you consider my lower belly "a bit fat"?
I don't know if I'm being paranoid trying (and failing) to lose that bit or it's just normal. To me it looks fat, but when training you get very critic of your own body and everything looks wrong. It's hard to...
connemara_crocodile
Xper 6 Age: 34 How to cope with guilt over a dead kitten?
I have fostered many kittens so far and some do die no matter how hard you try and that's the hardest part. Recently I rescued four kittens from the street, their mother was run over by a car, and they were like one month...
Anonymous
(30-35) Are these normal 1st & 2nd date behaviours?
So I matched with a guy on hinge a few weeks ago. He’s 29, I’m 24. I’ve gone on 2 dates with him. The first one was dinner at a sushi restaurant followed by ice cream & a game of pool at a nearby pub. It was cold that...
nocturnalbaby
Xper 5 Age: 28 People who allow themselves to physically deteriorate; have they basically given up on life?
Maybe they think, "Why bother? I'm not going to find someone special anyway. May as well not even try, it's too much hard work anyway".
Cassie88
Xper 5 Age: 38 What were you bullied for?
Any bullied victim of their can share your stories and how it affected your life now. You can do it anonymously too. I'll start by people bullying me for being quite fortunate because i don't live in a first world...
Anonymous
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