Search Results: comparing guys

Think I got rejected by my crush of 4 years. How to move on/what to do now?

Asked the guy I liked out since the first year of high school. Got rejected I think? He’s really really nice to me and then he’ll completely ignore me so I asked him if he liked talking to me and he said “I guess” and we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Filipina virgin, or another Western Feminist with high-miles and mental illness?

So, I've pretty much made up my mind about my future wife, and she's going to be a Filipina. About a week ago I went on Filipina Cupid (highly suggest), and received literally hundreds upon hundreds of likes/...

JamesDiaz11

Xper 7 Age: 30

Has anyone noticed how more straight men are not even trying as hard as they used to, to find a romantic partner?

More and more straight men (mostly the average and ugly ones) are not trying as hard as they used to, to find a romantic partner. I am not saying most men in general are giving up or not trying as hard, I am just saying A...

Steven8000

Xper 5 Age: 34

Can two desperate people make each other happy?

They say if you're desperate then you end up attracting people who will ignore you or not respect you. But what if both are desperate for each other? I met a cute guy online tried my shot and he's as excited to...

Rose_84

Xper 5 Age: 27

If I pushed away a guy who was interested how do I get him to be interested again?

I started talking to this guy who seems really cool. He asked me on multiple dates but each time I had an excuse. We haven’t met in person yet and I was so nervous to meet him thinking he wouldn’t like me. I’m 24, I don’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does anyone notice that women ptefer the company and just talking to men over women?

I do too. But im a hypocrite big time cause it annoys me when i see how my female bosses are so happy and excited to interact with male coworkers and male bosses and yet with me they act like they are dead inside. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend compared me to someone else. How should I feel about this?

Recently me and my girlfriend were talking about working out and I asked her to rate me. She told me I was a 9 but I lacked muscle so I asked her which areas I should develop. She then said " well I don't really know that...

rehanQ

Xper 3 Age: 22

Am I being manipulated?

there's this guy I've been friends with for several years. We ended up having a class together in college and it turned into something more when we started flirting. Neither of really thought the other would be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys have you ever felt intimidated by dating a girl who makes more money than you? And ladies have you dated a guy who was intimidated you earn more?

Usually there is this idea and discussion that men should earn earned more money for the relationship compared to women, and most people usually talk about a relationship if the girlfriend or wife earned more money in...

FinalFantasyBro

Yoda Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Was she purposely trying to make me jealous?

For about a year myself and a girl kept looking at each other in the gym. Everytime she walk in she stare at me, or if she walked past carrying weights she would stare. But I did not know if she was single. Sometimes I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you have sex with your boyfriend, does it ruins the chance of him marrying you?

I've often heard the saying ''Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free'' but how true is that? If the saying is true, this has me confused. My parents had sex (right on the 2nd month) in their relationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I've often heard the saying ''Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free'' but how true is that? If the saying is true, this has me confused. My parents had sex (right on

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We got back together but he has been a bit weird? Or maybe I’m overthinking it?

We broke up over a month ago (after 4months of dating) because he was concerned about me having guy friends or going to parties without which I did not understand the importance at that time but after talking 10 days ago...

Minaisconfused

Xper 3 Age: 36

Is there a difference between I'm not looking for a relationship and "I'm not sure if a relationship is in my near future or not?

Quick background: I have been talking and spending time with a guy and I think things have been going great. He's super busy with the work he does so we're definitely taking things slow and see each other maybe once a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is this guy very talkative some days then seems mad at me other days?

This is a man I work with and I’m beginning to get confused by his behaviour. For me this isn’t about me wanting all his attention it’s more to do with why sometimes he’s very nice and other times he seems like he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How can I stand for myself and act tough but be respectful and loving at the same time?

I fear so much to stand for myself in relationships. I accept them being harsh to me and I receive pain, but I everytime I try to stand for myself feels horrible. I hate hurting others feelings. My love is soft and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Men aged 45+ how would you feel about a 30 year old being interested in you?

I met an older man through work who I like a lot. He’s great, single and really nice/friendly. He is 49 and he’s very attractive and we get along very well. I’ve always been attracted to older men but I’ve never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who causes more problems in dating: Attention whores or the top 20% of males?

So we know that women chase the top 20% of males in their youth to try and snag them for LTR and will fulfill all of these male's sexual fantasize in hopes they commits to her; aka female version of friend zone. When that...

Anonymous

(36-45)