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My boyfriend and my best friend. Should I be concerned on his focus on her?

bigdreamer1

Xper 5 Age: 34

Some background on my friend. She is very caring, strong, and loves getting people together. Sarah is pretty, always full makeup, hair curled, and always wearing something flattering.

Some background on my friend. She is very caring, strong, and loves getting people together. Sarah is pretty, always full makeup, hair curled, and always wearing something flattering. I am one who dresses more for comfort than appearance. I don’t like wearing makeup unless we are going out with friends or to do something where we are going to be in public all day. My boyfriend earlier on used to bring up how I should go shopping with my friend so I could start dressing like her. I told him her clothes are very expensive and not something I really wanted to put my money towards even when it comes to sweats. So for Christmas last year he bought me a bunch of lululemon. He says I need to be presentable when walking the dogs around our neighborhood. My friends have recognized when they all want us to do something the only person that can get my boyfriend interested is if Sarah tells him. He constantly gets upset with me that we never do what he wants, but he isn’t recognizing we always do what Sarah wants. He is a lot nicer and social with Sarah than he is with me. When I ask him why that is he says he would be the same way to me if I treated him how Sarah treats him. He is always asking who Sarah is dating and what she is up to. This is all so odd to me because he accuses me of having things with his friends if I even talk to them for 30 seconds, Let alone if I were to ever bring them up in convo. Last weekend I was upset about something else and it made me feel not good enough. He immediately brought up Sarah and how he doesn’t want her just me. My issue with the Sarah conversation isn’t that I think they would be together it is that I’m jealous of the attention and how nice he is to her in comparison to me. Throughout the night he would come up and say the same thing, I don’t want Sarah. I finally said I know for a fact Sarah doesn’t want you so I would really appreciate you stop saying that. It also just validates you aren’t hearing why that topic annoys me. So?

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Guy's Behavior

If he truly cared, would he have texted back about going our separate ways?

Hi everyone, This guy and I have been going through a very weird vibe not dating but we have our moments where it's a little more than friends But there's a lot of lies on his side, I've never given him a reason to lie so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

Can you translate my dream?

so i had a dream that i had sex with this guy i cannot stand from my old college, a huge asshole but in the dream he was in a relationship with my ex best friend whom did horrible things to me, i found out later on but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

My sister may be dating her ex's best friend, am I wrong to be concerned?

Please give me advice esp if you've been in a similar situation!! My little sister broke up with her ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago after 7 months. she was super in love and vice versa. After the breakup he told...

crylikeag6

Xper 2 Age: 22

Dating

Need advice on what to do?

I was dating a girl 14 months ago, and we split due to various reasons. She told me to seek out other women to grow as a person, and perhaps later if we grow as people we may become more compatible in the future. Over the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why are millennial men so obsessed in dating 18-25 year old woman?

One of my best friends she is 30 about to turn 31. Her boyfriend 29 of 8 years left her for a stupid 21 year old. I just can't understand. They live a good woman that is capable of being a good wife and yet this guy lives...

Alwayreckles93

Yoda Age: 33

Dating

Can someone be too "perfect"?

My best friend has trouble dating; every time a guy breaks up with her, they use the same excuse. "You're too perfect for me". It usually happens after a month of dating. She showed me the conversations she had with 6...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is this a bad relationship? who is using who? ?

So my best friend is dating a girl and he pay for her to have a free apartment. He have his own home. They do not stay together. They go out with each other and they get along just fine. I just feel they like they will...

Anonymous

(25-29)

So my best friend is dating a girl and he pay for her to have a free apartment. He have his own home. They do not stay together. They go out with each other and they get along just

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Dating

Do you think she made right decision?

My best friend really liked a guy for a long time. They finally became friends. I was telling him for months she likes him. After some time they got closer. A lot of people thought they are dating already. They were so...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Women lead other women to ruin

It's become painfully clear who is the cause of a majority of female suffering in the world- other women. Everyone is susceptible to peer pressure, but women are to a greater degree than guys. However, even if it were...

JamesDiaz11

Xper 7 Age: 30

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Dating

Is a man who can cook an attractive attribute?

When it comes to dating, I know most women or girl's could care less because sometimes they don't want kids. However if you a woman wants to have a family sometime down the road it would be nice if a man could cook a good...

LadiesFavoriteToy

Xper 7 Age: 23

Guy's Behavior

Friends with benefits?

I have been friends with my best guy friend for over a year. Pretty soon into the friendship, I developed feelings for him then shortly after we became friends with benefits. He knew about my feelings. He decided we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My girlfriend is much younger than me?

I’m 37 and I’m in love with a 21 year old girl. Is that weird? My friends and family do not know that my girlfriend is that much younger than me. I’m sure if they looked at her they could tell she’s pretty young. I know...

thekingjoker

Xper 2 Age: 40

Dating

Girls, what do you look for in a man's dating profile to go on a date with him? Could use some advice?

I have been having trouble getting dates. Now my reasons for dating are trying to date seriously and hopefully find a genuine connection with someone I can marry and start a family with. I don't believe I come off as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Does my ex best friend/enemy like me?

I used to be friends with 2 boys who are brothers both younger than me, but i was closer with the older one more than the younger one. the older one was overprotective n people in school started assuming that he liked me...

Samketi

Xper 2 Age: 19

Dating

Have you ever started dating someone who was already a friend? If so, what happened with that relationship?

I remember being attracted to a co-worker who was single, not dating, and I knew she was interested in dating. We were fairly good friends due to havng worked together for 3-4 years and we had many common interests. I...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

I remember being attracted to a co-worker who was single, not dating, and I knew she was interested in dating. We were fairly good friends due to havng worked together for 3-4 years

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Guy's Behavior

Attraction is like surfing, Timing is everything so I need help gauging 🌊 patterns. Is this attraction & how to Proceed safely paddling out?

Recently I have found myself attracted to my best friends brother who is going though a rough season in his life. To be exact-2yrs of a very rough ungoing divorce that his ex has proven she will go to extreme lengths to...

Juneberry91

Xper 5 Age: 35

Relationships

Should I be nice to his baby mama?

I am a very private person. Like all women, I dream of the perfect romeo and juliet type love. And i had it at age 15. I met a boy who truly loved me, bought me roses everyday and was willing to wait on me. ( yes, I was a...

Ultraviolet__1

Xper 4 Age: 45

Dating

How do I become friends with a guy so I can date him eventually?

just to be clear I’m in high school so it’s more common to be friends with someone before dating them and on top of that if feel really uncomfortable going out with someone I didn’t know well. On top of that I’ve always...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Four Characteristics of a Fuckboy

Fuckboy: someone you're dating casually or someone you're having sex with who is not that interested in you Characteristics of a Fuckboy Inconsistency Not making plans in advance Excuses to why they don't want a...

AnonyWoman4309

Xper 7 Age: 26

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