Please give me advice esp if you've been in a similar situation!! My little sister broke up with her ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago after 7 months. she was super in love and vice versa. After the breakup he told his friends not to talk to my sister. But his BEST FRIEND, let's call him Mike, he reached out to my sister because her ex (his friend) was ranting about her and he felt she needed to know. But lately I've been hearing her and "Mike" facetiming until 2AM. My sister's ex boyfriend got really mad at Mike for still texting a my sister so their friendship is breaking. Mike complains about my sister's ex to my sister a lot like "I've been friends with this guy since middle school and he still can't trust me." What changed everything was on accident I found my sister texting Mike "I love you" and him saying it back. I don't know what their relationship is but he texted her to keep what they have a secret, especially from the ex boyfriend. it's sus how he paints himself as a nice guy while talking bad about his own best friend? I just think it's wrong to date your ex's best friend/to go for your best friend's ex because it can get so messy. I'm gonna talk to her however she is pretty sensitive. I think she wants to be petty to her ex, and likes the attention from mike rn. How can I talk to her about this without her retaliating? In her texts she jokes about getting with an ex's best friend, so I don't think she realizes how wrong it is (especially with the secrecy). also she's a junior in HS. Her excuse will be its cause her ex wronged her (talking other girls after) so it shouldn't matter who she dates and its true but I know she's better than that and can be the bigger person and still respect her ex. Her ex is also still into with her and i'm afraid it will all go wrong. Sorry i wrote so much I don't know where to ask and as her older sister I just want her to be away from unecessary drama/getting herself hurt.
My sister may be dating her ex's best friend, am I wrong to be concerned?
