Search Results: do guys back off

You can just answer the poll if you'd like, but there's also a story time below.😁

I should start off by saying, I'm an outgoing person, I like being around people so I find it very easy to make friends. I think have a hard time understanding introverts who struggle with making friends, so I'm sorry if I sound rude. I dont want to be that way. I hope I don't come across as such. * hug * Okay, ready for story time? Lol

There was someone on social media who was saying that summertime is hard for them because people have not always shown up for them and it makes them feel lonely. I responded with saying that it's important for them to handle situations on their own and not always rely on people but not to give up. Friends can be found in unexpected places.

They snapped back saying I was insensitive and that people end their life because people aren't always there. (Always? Of course not always. People have lives.)

I think it's concerning if somebody always relies on another person. It's part of adulting to figure out how to handle situations on your own I believe. I'm not saying you need to handle everything on your own, but you don't need to sulk around when you don't have someone right there because you've learned how to mentally equip yourself with situations on your own. I've met people like this in real life too.

One guy kept complaining about how he can't make any friends. It was always everybody else's problem to him. The guy was in his mid-30s, no friends.

I used to have a friend who had a photo album and in this album she had 30 plus pictures of all these different kinds of friends who she said did something wrong to her. It didn't take long until she accused me of something I didn't do. And it was the most hilarious one of all. She said I was doing witchcraft in her kitchen when I was making a pot of tea.😂😂I most certainly was not.