What should I do if a guy left me due to misunderstandings?

[Anonymous]

He said me not to talk to his friends. But unfortunately one day we lost contacts with each other so his friends are the only way I can find his contact. I asked his friends for his contact. They tried to mislead me and told me that they would not like to see me and him together and that they are expecting me to break off with him. I refused and still finally got his contact. Before I got his contact, his friends spread all misinformation about me to him that I don't like him, etc. He was deeply hurt and decided not to pursue me anymore. I struggled for 2 years to go back to him. I successfully reached him after 2 years. He isn't ready to listen anything from me and made me unable to contact him.

There is no mutual friend to him who can be trusted and he decided himself to not listen to me anymore since he thought I don't love him and staying distant and isn't available for me to even tell him any truth that his friends are lying.

What should I do in this situation?

Leave him or fight for him and find his contact or ask some of my trusted friend to contact him and give him explanation?

[strateguy632]

it ended so move on to someone else

[Asker]

I did everything to put efforts in making him understand. If he doesn't have a sound mind and if he can't take independent decisions or rely on other people's advices, he isn't a man worth giving my life to.

A man who wants me should earn me and not rely on other people's advices. That kind of man is a man worth fighting for and staying with.

If a boy wants to push me to an edge to see how much I put efforts in making him understand, it isn't fair for me to do and it isn't fair for him to expect those many unreasonable efforts from me without asking truth from me again even after someone raised a disappointment in him.

I need to choose a strong guy who fights for me and not a weak guy who gives up on me.

This is the reason a girl shouldn't spoonfeed a guy or else he will never learn to be a man of confidence.

A man of confidence stands up and fights for the woman he loves.

A girl should not be a fighter. A man should be a fighter.

A girl should be protected from idiots and not thrown to idiots.

If he's capable of throwing a girl to idiots, he never deserves her and he doesn't deserve to be in her life anymore and yes, I blocked him finally.

[Asker]

However, it's a long term love that he got which he destroyed with misunderstandings. He's the loser. I'm not.

I can find a better guy who constantly protects me and stands up for me.

I lost a trash. If he was a valuable guy, he would never have lost me because valuable guys will definitely put efforts to work their relationships.

If anything, a confident and honest conversation can work but if he refuses for that, he is setting up himself for a heartbreak in losing me.

I wonder if he have a heart to break. I don't think he is a person worth spending time or emotions on because he's a selfish guy who only have a closed mind which is like a cage and once the poison is in it, no girl can stay in that cage.

I need to understand that it doesn't matter how much time I spent time in eating quality less food, I can always turn around and have a better quality food which is good for my health.

Same way, I'll deal with him.

He doesn't exist in my life anymore. I blocked him.

He's a low level guy who doesn't have a high level thinking. Hence, he deserves to lose me. A guy with high level thinking is the guy who deserves me.

I should rewrite my destiny with a good person and not try to get back with shit through which my life becomes a shit

[Danny_dan92]

Let things be