Sounds like he's trying to avoid spending time with you. Hold off on the break up for moment, just back off. I mean majorly back off. Sometimes guys act like this when they still care about the girl but they've grown too comfortable or they think you'll put up with anything he throws at you. He's playing games and I think you need to gain your respect back.
Do not answer his calls/texts at all tonight or most of tomorrow. When you do finally get back to him, tell him you're just swamped, make it quick, and then get off the phone. Refuse to make any plans to see him, just insist you're so so busy. It may take a day or two, but if he cares about you and simply needed a reality check he'll be panicking at this point. Trying to figure out what's wrong, calling you. He's going to feel scared that he's pushed you too far and his behavior should shape up at this point.
If he doesn't really care, and isn't worth your time, he's barely going to notice. He may not try to call at all, he's not bothered by this, he doesn't make an attempt to see you, etc. At THIS point is where you break up with him. You don't want a guy that can go this long without seeing/talking to you and doesn't care.
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I think its miscommunication. Unless you have told him that you feel like you aren't seeing much of each other and you wish you would spend more time together he won't know. If this is a one time thing than Id let it go but if he does this (ditch you) all the time than screw it.
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